[redheadc]

I'm 4 months pregnant, I've been with my boyfriend 15 months, this baby wasn't planned. we're both scared of the further, he doesn't want to have the baby and I'm so confused. We're so good together and I do see a further with him but not sure if I could get rid of the baby

[Devorameira]

How old are you?

Everyone has their own opinion, but I would forget about having an abortion. It you feel you have to do something, why not allow a nice couple to adopt him or her?

Whatever you do, don't allow him to pressure you into anything and don't make a rash decision. Any decisions you make have to be your own, or you'll suffer from guilt for years to come.

[abbysnow51]

I would say that if your boyfriend relly loves you, he will understand that it wasn't intended, and he will support you and be there for you all the way through your pregnancy... that's alll that I could think of...