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    Ging1994 Posts: 190, Reputation: 9
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    Jan 20, 2007, 12:31 PM
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    Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 weeks now my friends who talk to him a lot say he wants to makeout with me but he's my first boyfriend I'm ready to kiss him but not make out yet we have grinded at dances and stuff and were really close and tell eacher a lot:) but I'm scard ill kiss bad
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    Jan 20, 2007, 12:38 PM
    Hey its fine the first time I kissed was in 4 grade with my girlfriend and it was fine we kissed and then we knew that we could be sucure w? Each other and we had no issues in the relationship for about 1 and 1/2 years
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    Jan 20, 2007, 12:45 PM
    Stick by your guns and go at your own pace. He is probably as insecure as you are.
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    Jan 20, 2007, 01:20 PM
    Well I'm a little nervouse because he's gone out with many girls and kissed all of them ocationaly I tease him just for fun but I really do want to kiss him
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    Jan 21, 2007, 11:56 AM
    Hey,go with your gut.My advice is don't just let yourself go.MAke him work for ya(if you know what I mean)bcuz all my girlz have had this problem so then they just bowed down to their bfs and later they dumped them .It was just a nother trophy for him.Besides the more you make him work fpr it, the better chance you will last longer.

    Let me know how it works out,kAY?
    LAHTAH
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    Jan 22, 2007, 12:47 PM
    It seems like everybody is telling you don't kiss, but you said that you want to your just scared.. so... everybody kisses bad their first time, you have to not be scared and make it a fun thing, it doesn't have to be so serious. If you want to kiss, tell him, and tell him your probably going to be bad so don't laugh or something, he'll probably think its cute, and like I said its not that serious. Making out is fun, not like the movies where they stare into eachothers eyes for an hour and are sweaty before they do anything. Just relax. And pucker up..
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    Jan 26, 2007, 03:23 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Ging1994
    me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 weeks now my friends who talk to him a lot say he wants to makeout with me but hes my first boyfriend im ready to kiss him but not make out yet we have grinded at dances and stuff and were realy close and tell eacher a lot:) but im scard ill kiss bad
    I understand, but its totally up to you when it comes down to it and not your friends. Do what you feel comtorble doing. Everybody is always nervous there first kiss then u get over it. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do and he should never force you to. You seem pretty into him. It's always nice to be able to tell your boyfriend things. If you decide to kiss him in time, tell him you've never kissed a guy before and your nervous and you want to wait until the time is perfect. He should understand and never force you into anything or tell you that if u loved him u would do it... thats wrong. Just relax and take your time honey...

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