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    Nov 12, 2010, 01:19 AM
    How to get back my girl back whom I love more than myself
    After a lot of thinking I came to know that I love a girl whom I've met in Facebook. She told me every truth about her past. She once was lonely so said yes to another boy who was just faking her and she was also doing same to that boy. Then when she found me as a right person she was looking for the next boy started truly loving her but I don't think that he love her more than me. She wants to get rid of him but have no solution. Please help me mates. How to make that boy leave our way??
    I really love her more than myself.
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    Nov 12, 2010, 05:41 AM
    "She wants to get rid of him but have no solution."
    Oh please, give yourself a good kick. If she wanted to get rid of him she'd get rid of him. She's playing both of you or isn't interested in making up her mind. And stop loving her 'more than yourself.' That just sounds clingy and self-deprecating, like saying 'I'm going to starve until you love me' and all it does is turn people off. People love you because of who you are, what you do and like and feel and think, not because you deprive yourself for them.
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    Nov 12, 2010, 08:00 AM

    You don't love her... you've never even met her, you don't know her.

    Do you have any idea how many people lie online... for all you know "she" is really a "HE".

    Seriously... like joypulv said, read what you just wrote. Seriously read it. You really do sound pathetic and that isn't attractive to women. That might be a feeling for your own Children when you have them, but its not for someone you only know online.

    Heck... its not even normal when you are getting married.


    Take a step back and breath...

    He isn't leaving because THEY actually have a relationship, and SHE doesn't want him to leave.

    Remember even if she does make him leave... one day someone will do this to you. If she did it once, she will do it again. That's a fact of life... and being I'm 49, I've seen it happen more times than I can remember. And when they were people I knew... I always told them... "I told you so". Because I did and they did it anyway. Some of them married after I warned them beforehand, and ended up divorced... a couple even had children.
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    Feb 21, 2012, 05:48 AM
    I agree with joypulv... there's nothing like loving more than self really exists.. love her, your love only makes her to get of him.. not your plans... all d best

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