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    amrsallam Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 10, 2010, 12:21 PM
    What can I do if some kids make fun of me and bully me everyday when found alone?
    I'm a 40 years old shy man. Its where I live and when my mom and sister goes to work, I go to get things from the supermarket or just go walking and I meet those kids who make fun of me, saying here's the "sweety", they start pushing me, pulling me from my shirts and kicking me. I cannot answerback. What shall I do?
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    Nov 10, 2010, 12:27 PM

    Contact your local police dept. Let them handle it. Many places have anti-loitering laws in place even if there are no other violations seen by the police.

    Kicking you is clearly an assult. And can be charged.
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    Nov 11, 2010, 12:15 AM
    I agree with Smoothy, I'd contact the police ASAP. This kind of behavior even from kids can lead to serious violence. Before things get out of hand contact their parents or, the police. If it was my kids I would want to know about this kind of behavior.
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    Nov 11, 2010, 12:27 AM
    Do your mother and your sister know what's going on?

    I agree that calling the police, or speaking to them with your mother and sister, is a good idea. But, unless you are able to identify them, and lucky enough to have enough time to call the police and have them arrive while they are assaulting and bullying you, it will be difficult for them to track these people down, get their names, charge them, etc.

    If you do know who they are, or have any information about them that can identify or locate them, that is a different story.

    Also to consider is taking a different route to the grocery store when you go out. If you know that these people are often where you are walking, try to choose a different route. Or, take public transportation, or wait until your mother or sister are around, and they can go with you. Or perhaps you have a friend or neighbour who wouldn't mind walking with you, or helping you reach your destination safely.

    If you can safely avoid them, then by all means do so, but if you can't, and the police are unable to assist you, please think of another way to not be alone if you absolutely have to go the route you are taking now.
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    Nov 11, 2010, 04:15 AM
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    Thank you very much dr.jack , well I don't know much information abou their partents but our neighbour told my mother that she knows them. Today I'm waiting for my mother and sister and haven't walked alone and we'll see what to do about it.
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    Nov 11, 2010, 08:34 AM
    Amrsallam,

    That is great news that your neighbour has talked to your mother. Maybe a few clues and some direct action will put an end to this for you.

    It's good that you have some help in dealing with this.

    Good luck to you, and stay safe.

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