[MutedRunner]

I'm in a long distance same sex relationship with my girlfriend, and I'm worried about her. I tried calling, txting, lef messages in fb and msn. Then last week when I called her cousin answered the phone and we text each other I found out my girlfriend is sick again and I was trying to find out what's wrong with her and I was told that was something my girlfriend needs to tell. My girlfriend haven't been in contact with me she left a message in fb and msn to say she was sick. But nothing for me personally. To be honest it hurts I thought we are together but I feel I'm nothing to her. She responded to my message in fb saying I was jumping to conclusions but wouldn't you think that when you haven't head from your girlfriend? She didn't even thought of how I feel at all. I decided I won't contact her anymore, I really love her but I don't she feels the same way. Am I doing the right thing? I really don't know but I don't want to get hurt because my gut feeling tells me something is not right? I may sound a little selfish but I know if someone I truly cared about will be worried about me if they haven't seen me I will send a text to at least let them know what is going on with me, unfortunately I'm not like that to her. I guess should have seen it when she posted her status as single when she started fb and when we got together she never changed it. If anyone can give me advice that will be helpful because my situation is driving me crazy.

[talaniman]

Doesn't sound like a mutual caring relationship to me, but I don't know how you define it but yes some consideration for a partner would be expected. I mean how hard is a phone call, or email/text to send? Yeah something is up, and it doesn't sound good for your side, and I would probably send her something nasty, and walk away from this, and do my own thing.

She would be hard pressed to ever hear from me again either. That's just me though.

[DoulaLC]

I don't think she is as into you as you are into her. Could you have misinterpreted the level of commitment in the relationship?

I'd send her one more text telling her that you hope she feels better and you will talk to her another time and then don't contact her again.

If she contacts you later, she can explain things to you. If you are satisfied with her explanation, fine. If not, it might be time to move on.

[MutedRunner]

Well, email her after I got frustrated. You see I went into FB and I saw her online so I went to chat and she went offline after I send my chat so I got upset and email her to say ill save both of us the drama and since you're clearly avoiding me I'll make it easy for bot of us. I deleted her of fb, msn and my phone. Right now I have no way of contacting her. She replied to my email saying that she doesn't have any idea why I think of this things, and I was jumping to conclusions again and she is sick and tired of it and she officially give up on me, and her last word sentence was don contact me again, in between that she said she was online waiting for me but I was online not once I saw her on, I replied to her email and told her I acted that way because I was worried sick and I thought of the worst that why she as avoiding me but I told her that I will do what she ask which was I won't contact her again. She posted on her msn and fb how she want nothing to do with me anymore and that she hope I won't ever contact her again. I didn't response to it she want no contact so I'm giving her what she wants. I must say this though, I'm still in love with her but she showed me the door so I got to learn to move on. I think having no contact with her will be a start at least, I hope.

[gara]

There is no feelings man , and I think she wasn't sick , she was just thinking something to make excuess about it , man it's over , I'm sorry to tell you this , but I feel like there is no attention about this girl , I will tell you one thing to do , go to her and tell her , it's over , and don't even ask her to be your friend, walk away and move on , you going to feel a little bit pian , so man be strong , this ***** did't under stand you at all , and what you said it's doesn't sound selfish at all , you just proofed to me that you are really smart , man you have to move on and tell her it's over in her face, and update me with your news