[ferszty]

Hi I'm new here and I'm asken a bit about relationships. I'm 16 my girlfriend is a little younger and I asked her if she wanted too have sex with me. She said no not until I'm a bit older like 20. She wants too have sex with me but her parents said she's not allowed too until then or somethi. I've been with her for almost 4 months now. Her parents are strict I'm not allowed too sleep next too her or even in the same house. I sometimes think they are a little over protective. I know I get really jealous sometimes. I went too her birthday and it was a sleep over there were like 8 people in the room and we wernt allowed too sleep next too each other. We had been going out for about 2 weeks. At her last birthday she slept on her boyfriend lap and I'm not even allowed too sleep on her lap it sucks stupid parents they think that we are going to have sex in front of 8 people ***. So anyway how could I sleep with her I know it will take time I'm still a virgin and she is a virgin. Her parents have sex a lot she tells me she can hear them having sex and she can't get too sleep. I love her sooo much and she knows it. I want to marrie her when we are older she means so much too me I don't want too lose her.

[J_9]

Wait until you are older and have an education and a good job before you decide to become a father.

Sex=pregnancy. Even protected sex=pregnancy.

Her parents are right to keep you two apart as they are. I know you don't want to hear this, but you aren't ready to be a father.

Enjoy your teen years now.

[ferszty]

I want to know what I'm missing out on cause all my friends are having sex and you should know.

[VRon1]

If you don't want to lose her be patient.
Honestly most and practically all kids don't follow all their parents rules.
If she was ready and wanted to have sex she would.
Have you asked her what she wants without you telling her what you want?

[ferszty]

Kind of but I hardly ever get time alone with her. Only at school I c her because she lives like 15 min drive.
I'm trying to get time alone with her but its hard cause her parents always have an excuse.
I love her she said take it slow with me which I am. I love you I want to do more with her but we don't c each other really out of school.

[J_9]

I want to know what I'm missing out on cause all my friends are having sex

You are missing out on nothing more than working to pay child support, giving up your education to raise a child in a broken home. You are missing out on doctor's appointments; shots; diapers; formula; up all night with a sick baby.

If you are not ready for all of this, you are not ready for sex.

[ferszty]

Like I want sex with her but not a lot of sexual intercourse.
Maybe a couple times but not so she will get pregnant if you know what I mean.

[Jlesnik33]

Hormones are a killer, but just the way you talk I can already see you have a lot of growing up to do. And to consider she's younger then you and your 16.. its obvious you should wait. Be respectful to the parents, and to her. You don't want to be pushy.

[ferszty]

She said today over fb that she will or might have it with me in 2-3 months :) but now I need to get some condoms. Where would the best place be?? I want to be ready for when it does happen.

[ferszty]

Oh yer will she mind if I'm not cricumsized?
I'm scared she might dump me when she finds out that's y I haven't told her I am.
I'm not going too tell her until we are going too.