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    Nov 3, 2010, 12:13 PM
    Having problems with my girlfriend
    I am currently having problems with my girlfriend. We have been together for 3years and now she keeps fighting with me about everything. She says she loves me and wants to be with me, but the last two months have really been rough and now she wants to break up. What do I do?
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    Nov 3, 2010, 02:48 PM

    No offense, but if all you do is fight, why not take a break. Get out and see what life has to offer. Maybe there is a girl out there who would like to be with you without all the drama.
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    Nov 3, 2010, 06:50 PM

    Seems to me she has been fighting because she wants out, and now she finally had the courage to tell you she wants a break up. Love ain't worth the misery of constantly fighting with your partner, and truthfully, that isn't love anyway.
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    Nov 4, 2010, 03:30 AM
    I do not think that girls fight because they want out. Sometimes is just because they are upset about something and they do not control their feelings, and think that their partner can guess what is right, which is wrong. However, if she wanted to go out she could just say that instead of fighting no? IF she is not mature enough, she may used the fight to test if you are ready to help her i.e. ask her why is she upset and fight etc. If you did not provide that to her, she may think you do not love her enough. Sit together and talk calmly, break up can be option, but will not solve her issues. Talk.
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    Nov 4, 2010, 03:36 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by new77 View Post
    I do not think that girls fight because they want out. If she wanted to go out she could just say that instead of fighting no?
    Unfortunately, girls are not as straightforward as guys are. Girls will want out of a relationship, but instead of honestly saying so, they will fight and argue and whine and make trouble so that the guy will say "Enough!" Then it becomes his fault, not hers. Then she will not feel guilty about a breakup.
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    Nov 4, 2010, 04:24 AM
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    I think everyone is different :) If I want to be out I would not loose time with him fighting I will just go out. With fighting she may also was trying to say that something is wrong and trying to tell him.. who knows, the best is to talk
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    Nov 4, 2010, 07:45 AM

    When you fight instead of talk, chances are you will break up.
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