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    cristianq123 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 2, 2010, 02:31 PM
    I need help with my break up.
    I been with this one girl for almost two years and a month. Our relationship has been up and down. I broked up with her because I couldn't take it no more with her. But during our break up I still talk to her and hang out wit her and also saw her mostly every day. During the break up I thought she was going to change like wanting me back but she acted like a big *****. In the break up I didn't talk to any one or did anything behind her back because I still loved her and had so muh feelings for her. But she went out to the club and to a party with her friends but she told me that she didn't did anything bad. So I believed her and then one day I go through her and see a picture of her with some friends holding a drink. I got surpised because she stop drinking and smoking during our relationship. So I got mad and asked her if she drank with her friends and then she told me "Yes I did but I didn't drank like i used to before". After she told me that I was so hurt and then out of the blue she tells me that she met some a guy. Right when she told me that I was heart broken and started to cry in front of her and then I just left home but before I did she told me that she stills loves me, cares about me, and has so much feelings for me. I feel like a idiot so bad. Then what hurt more was that she was putting slutty pictures on her myspace and it made feel like WOW. So what I should I do?
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    Nov 2, 2010, 02:41 PM

    Are you already broken up?

    Or are you planning on breaking up?
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    Nov 2, 2010, 04:28 PM

    Walk away, don't contact them again and move on with your life
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    Nov 2, 2010, 05:00 PM

    Well, tell them things aren't going anywhere and ask if you can just be friends. That's all I have, sorry if it doesn't help
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    Nov 3, 2010, 04:30 AM

    Leave the ex alone, and move forward with your life, and give yourself time to heal.
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    Nov 3, 2010, 06:22 PM

    Wow, sounds like you've got a problem on your hands. Try and have a talk with her, discuss everything If you can't do that, talk to someone close to you to get all these feelings out. If none of this helps I don't know what to say, you could just move on, but that's hard to do. Hope I helped!

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