[euteamo]

I have a boyfriend, we're dating for almost 2 years, and everything was going "fine" until I started to look at a friend of mine differently. He started to call my attention, his style, his hair, his eyes.. and when he talks to me I feel STUPID! I've never felt this way before while in a serious relationship, and I know what I feel about this friend is just physical attraction, but this feeling is starting to grow more and more and I really don't know what to do. This guy treats me the same way, he looks at me the same way, we talk to each other the same passionate way, and when I'm with him I feel like if he kissed me I wouldn't do anything to stop it, and that's terrible. I love my boyfriend more than words can wield the matter, I'd never break up with him because of this guy, but he's making me feel weirder each time more. What should I do

[Devorameira]

Sounds like you're having a good time flirting with one another, but if you respect your boyfriend, you'll steer clear of your "friend", just to ensure that you don't act on any impulses.

[euteamo]

I've already tried that, but he's addictive, I can't stay away from him.

[Barry1981]

Seriously... you're responsible for your own actions and rather than say he's addictive, you need to take more active measures to stop this.

Avoid any situation where you're alone with him - especially when alcohol is involved for a start. Concentrate on your boyfriend, spend more quality time with him etc.

This certainly seems like a brief infatuation, they do happen and they do pass.

[answerme_tender]

Euteamo,

Maybe your feelings have changed for whatever reasons towards your boyfriend, there not as strong. It sounds like if this other guy gave any indication that he wanted a affair, you would jump right into it with him.

You are not married. Get out of this relationship with present boyfriend, don't string him along thinking you are still TOTALLY committed to him, because obviously your not. Once your free and if this other guy is free, then nothing is holding you back.

Just remember don't lose yourself respect by going any further with this "addiction" as you say, until you GET OUT of your present relationship.

[talaniman]

The best way to deal with any addiction, is to stay away from what your addicted to. If its going to make you a lying, cheating whore, why bother? That's not who you are is it? Do whatever it takes to stay within the boundaries of good behavior, and be honest with yourself, and your boyfriend. Let him go if you can't control yourself, or don't want to, or pay the consequences of doing the wrong thing, for the wrong reasons.

Maybe you're just not ready for a real serious relationship, but if you are, take it seriously ,or you will be a lousy partner for anyone.