[nicole5986]

Me and my boyfriend had anal sex 2 days ago and when I have a bowl moment there is some blood in the toilet but that's it, there is no bleeding at anytime and its not painful. Is this normal?

[Wondergirl]

Is the blood dark-colored or bright red?

[nicole5986]

Bright red and not a whole lot

[Wondergirl]

I'm not a doctor and have no experience with this problem, but do figure that, since you aren't having any pain, tissues got torn and are still raw and healing.

Was this your first time having anal sex, and did he use a lubricant?

[nicole5986]

I did it like 5 years or more ago so first time in a long long time, first time with him though. We used lubricant but maybe not enough?

[Wondergirl]

J_9, the site's nurse, just commented that I'm right about the tissue damage. Maybe she will give you some help for this and the future.

Yes, you need lots of lubrication, and take it slow and easy.

[J_9]

It's caused by internal tissue damage and possibly not enough lubricant. Should heal in a few days. It may be necessary to use a stool softener until then, and it would be recommended not to have anal intercourse for a week or so.

[smoothy]

Might want to add... timing will help a lot. You aren't going to get the car in the garage if the Suburban is already there... so usually an hour or two after a Bowel Movement is an optimum time. Not immediately afterwards.