[weasmasta]

OK, so I have this girlfriend, we're in love, and I would really like to intimate with her, but I just don't know how to tell her, I don't want to change the way she feels about me, so I kind of need a way to tell her "hey, I want to have sex with you", but with more kind words.

[JoeCanada76]

I do not think it is a good time. How long have you known your girlfriend? How old are you?
Is it really love, or is it more of a lust? Have to ask the tough questions.

Joe

[weasmasta]

I really, really love her, and she sais she does too, we've been together for almost a year, and sometimes when I'm making out with her I feel like it's not enough to show her my love, and I don't really know how. Oh and I'm 18, she's too.

[JoeCanada76]

So you have never brought up anything sexual with her, or her with you? Does she want to wait for a certain time or do you know any of her beliefs or feelings about it? These are things if you been together for a year you should already know, because if you do not then you do not know her that well.

I would say communication is key. Talk to each other about making love. Find out her feelings on it.

Joe

[weasmasta]

Ok, but how do I bring up the subject?

[philosofairy]

Just go with the flow when the time is right it will just happen. Start enjoying her company and stop worrying about sex.

[manimuth]

You can bring up the subject anytime you feel comfortable. Just turn it into a conversation; just like all the other conversations you've had. If this is too awkward, maybe you can try bringing it up the next time you are making out and stop or take a break. Just casually tell her that you want to ask her how she feels about sex. Do not pressure her in anyway... simply find out where she stands on the subject, how she feels, does she plan to wait, etc. Once you start the conversation, you can tell her how you feel. Starting the conversation is probably the hardest part. After that, just communicate your heart out... good luck