[janmaip]

My boyfrnd of three years and I broke up six months ago. He broke up with me. After we broke up we used to talk. We basically kept contact. Jus a month back,he so me with a guy that I'm dating. Afta that,he started being rude. Wen I try talking to him he would respond in an angry and rude way. Evrytym I tok to him he would say thngs like," i hv neva been beta" and staff. Does he want me back?

[Cat1864]

It sounds like he is confused and it is now confusing you. Why would you care what he wants if you have a boyfriend?

I would end the confusion by not having anything to do with the ex. You have a current boyfriend who should be the one you are concerned about instead of the male who let you go after three years.

Don't allow the ex to play games with your heart and mind. Don't allow him to be a 'dog in the manger' (keeping control over something he doesn't want or can't use just to keep someone else from having it.)

A word of caution, IF you are planning on leaving your current boyfriend for the ex, don't. Leave the relationship only because it isn't working or right for you. DO NOT leave one relationship to get into another one. Make certain that you give yourself time to heal before moving on to the next relationship. IF at some point you do start talking to the ex about getting back together, make certain that ALL the issues from the past have been dealt with before you try to rebuild the relationship.

[salesman548]

Yes... but is being difficult & hiding his true feelings so he dose not appear weak.

[mmresd]

I do not think he wants to get back. After a three year relationship I would assume that even though it has been sometime the "boyfriend" feelings are still there so seeing you with another man would probably feel bad to anyone who is put in this type of position. Just forget about him, and yeah, if you already have someone in your life give this guy a chance or break up with him, stop leading him on if you still haven't gotten over your last boyfriend. Be fair to others, stop being dishonest because although it doesn't sound like he wants you back it sounds like you do. So, make a decision, but forget about your ex and focus on your new relationship.

P.S. Please use proper grammar... shorthand is not accepted in this website.

Good Luck,

Javi

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes, and often while the ex does not want you, they don't like you with someone else. You should not care what they think and go on with your life