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fruityme · Oct 17, 2010, 12:38 PM

Hi I'm 16 and I never had a boyfriend but recently I've been talking to this guy he's 18 and he said said that we would start talking to me more if I just told him I liked him. So I did and now he doesn't even talk to me at all we had 1st period together but he dropped it claiming it was to hard and we have 4th together and he doesn't even look at me. Was it wrong for me to tell him how I feel? Is it my fault? People tell me to move on but I don't know how. I always ask myself what if I didn't tell him would he still be in my 1st period and keep talking to me? Did I do something wrong? I'm just so confused

MistakeMaker · Oct 17, 2010, 04:53 PM

I know exactly how you're feeling but it is NOT a bad thing to tell someone you like them, he told you to tell him and you did. It's his fault you two aren't talking anymore, not yours. Obviously he probably doesn't even know what he wants at the moment. So don't let it get to you too much, if you take it like it's not much of a big deal and that it's not majorly important to you that he has stopped talking to you then maybe he will feel that he is losing the opportunity to share something with you. It's a lot more exhilerating if what you want has to be worked for rather than just handed to you. So just think that he's a d*ckhead and get on with your life and I am sure there's a good chance that he will come crawling back. But yeah, don't beat yourself up, you've done absolutely nothing wrong =)

Cupcake01 · Oct 22, 2010, 05:40 PM

I agree with Mistake Maker. That boy has NO idea what he wants or else he wouldn't have reacted that way. He most likely took it as a shock that you even admitted it. I think you should get your questions answered by going right up to him and asking him. Make sure he's not around his friends though, because you know how that can go. This will probably take a lot of courage, I'm sure because it does sound difficult. But just do it. If he replies with some lame answer then at the end of the day you know you tried your part. He's two years older AND a boy so if he's got nothing to say to you then he really is a punk. You'll feel like the bigger person when it's all over. You can do it. Wish you luck! :)

VRon1 · Nov 5, 2010, 06:27 PM

You didn't do anything wrong.
But you should move on and maybe he'll come around and maybe he won't.
High school is like that. Live your life talk to other guys. Make friends and be confident in yourself.
He isn't worth your time if he is going to treat you like that.