[lovetam23]

I have the hardest time trying to find someone after my horrible break up with my ex. I wish I could someone. Even if it is a friend or soomeone for coffee etc

[I wish]

Trying too hard sometimes works against you. Focus on meeting new people and making new friends. You will increase your chance of finding someone if you meet more people. Furthermore, let the romance develop naturally as opposed to trying to force the issue when you meet someone new.

Try to put yourself in a position to meet more people. Go to parties, social events, join clubs, sports, gym, etc.

[lovetam23]

Thanks I am involved in dacing and everything and I cannot seemed to make it work for me. I will try it though. I am currently taking a dance salsa class, and a hip hop calss and other things. I guess sometimes I just hate feeling lonely etc. thanks

[JackVolver]

Be positive. Believe me, positive attidute is the key for everything! As you look around, everybody is depressed, stressed, but you can notice the confidence and kindness just in a smile of a people walking down the street. I know, life isn't pancake with butter but you have to pull in yourself, put on your smile, and live your life. There is always a chance of meeting that person, and it only will come when you not expecting it :) Be more chaotic, and don't even think of that thing; it will find you.

As an addition, I believe in karma (in case you not, don't read this) so try to be a very good and helpful person, and if you do that there is no such s*** that life will drag you down or don't reward you!

[Fr_Chuck]

Agreed, be positive and up beat, and you are not looking for a husband just a date, so don't be as picky and start going out with someone to start with.