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    Jan 17, 2007, 04:03 PM
    Breaking my own rule?
    Hey you,
    OK I have always believed and said that if a friend of yours likes a guy and you know it, you shouldn't go out with him flirt with him.
    Well, I have always thought this guy was nice,and even in kindergarten I thought he was cute.I havwe always thought he was cute, and I have always thoought a lot of him because he is never mean , allways polite and really nice.ANYwayz, my really close best friends has beencrushing on him since kindergarten and all the way to now.Well, if he asks me out, do you think I should say yes?I mean , I like him enough to give him a chance, but would I be totally backstabbing her in the back? Also I think she would do the same for me.ALso she wasn't crushing on him hardcore, but she has probably liked him the way I have, just noticing him because he is so great.sometimes I feel bad for even thinking about going out with him because she has never had a boyfriend and I have had more experience.BUt I might like him too! Its like I am disobeying my own rule!! OHH sum1 pleeeeez help!! :eek:
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    Jan 17, 2007, 05:08 PM
    I would suggest you confront your friend. Ask her what she would want you to do. Maybe she won't care, or maybe she does. Either way by gaining this information it will allow you to make a more educated decision. If she does have a problem with it, but you still want to go out with him remember that most relationships fizzle out but friends usually stay friends forever. I would suggest that until you are sure you really really like him, you stay away just for your friend. But like I said I would bring this up to your friend and see what she says, before you go and make any kind of decision...
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    Jan 17, 2007, 05:52 PM
    Ask your friend that if ever that guy asks her out would she go with him ? Tallk with your friend and let her know how you feel , besides she's your best friends she'll help you to get over with...

    Good luck :)
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