Is she too sure of herself

jaimie02 · Jan 16, 2007, 05:29 PM

OK I REALLY like this guy. So does my BFF and one of her friends that I really don't know.
HEs a senior and we are freshman, he flirts with all three of us all the time. He told me and hilary ( my BFF ) that he was just going with a group of friends to the dance. Alexa (Hilary's friend) thinks that Nick will ask HER to the dance. She really thinks he likes her and I think she is too sure of herself. He says he doesn't want to go with a date, but alex's friend ashley has been trying to set them up and really thinks he's going to ask her. Do you think they are too sure of themselves? I mean, not that he can't like her or me, but I don't think he would ask a freshman out as a date. Maybe to dance, but not as a DATE!

wizzkid89 · Jan 16, 2007, 06:21 PM

One... anything can happen... but it sounds likes your problem is rooted in jealousy. Do you think it's possible that you might like this guy, and you are envious of your friend being set up or possibly going to the dance with him? It sure sounds that way from you statement. I would suggest you sort out your feelings for this guy before you take any action. If you do like him, maybe you could tell him and you two could go to the dance. If you don't like him, then why bother yourself with the problems of others...

jaimie02 · Jan 17, 2007, 04:25 PM

Yes, I do like him. I don't think I am JEALOUS, just annoyed. This girl keeps saying that he's going to ask her. Well guess what, he's not. He is going with her and me and hilary and jaime and danielle, we're going in a group. How can I let this chick know that he's NOT asking HER?? \
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wizzkid89 · Jan 17, 2007, 04:56 PM

Honestly it's in your best interest not to tell her, I know it might seem annoying, however it's best to let this guy handle his situation with this other girl. No offense, but it really isn't your place to tell her. Also it wouldn't be a classy move to inform her because it would seem like you are flaunting the fact that he is going with you and not her. All in all, it's best to leave this situation alone, as it has nothing to do with you...

jaimie02 · Jan 17, 2007, 05:15 PM

Thank you but how do I make her stop being annoying. I have to hear it for another week and a half "Nick likes Alex" or "Jaimie, Nick is asking ALEX to the dance, not you... hahahah" the girl that says that obviously is not my friend... How do I make it stop?

think_pink · Jan 17, 2007, 05:45 PM

Just tell her to stop being annoying and you steel have a week and a half till that day comes you just have to wait to see who that guy is going to ask to go to the dance with and besides you said that your going as a group so your all going together...