[DevinniveD]

I don't want to sound judgmental but I think I'm a really good looking guy and thinking about my past girlfriends, they were beautiful. But they all cheated on my and picked numerous guys over me after I kept trying to date them after what they did to me. But because I decided to date these girls for so long, other girls don't really look at me like I'm dateable. Now that I'm single I want to find a totally different kind of girl... How can I make girls from totally different "cliques" like me as a boyfriend and not just a friend?

[Alty]

If you're expanding into other "cliques" than it shouldn't be a problem. If in fact the problem is that the girls in the old "clique" all talked about you and now you're not date material.

Just go out, meet new people, be yourself, be respectful and polite, and you'll meet new girls to date.

There isn't a formula. You just have to be open to meeting new people, expanding your horizons.

Good luck.

[dangerousdragon]

Well I don't know about the other girls here but I like guys to talk to me and be nice to me and when the time is right ask for her number and go out it'll take a while until your in an actual relationship but yup that's pretty much it...

[kctiger]

You got to be yourself... you got to have confidence in yourself enough to know you ARE desirable... and you got to talk to girls without the first intention being to get their number.

It's the art of flirting my friend and it's something we all struggle with. I go in slumps of just not being able to get a girl at all, to girls thinking I'm a freaking stud (few and far between).

Just be polite and spark up a conversation. Ask questions, be humorous, and pay genuine attention to her. It's a simple equation, it's just sometimes hard to have the courage to do it. Good luck!