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    mandy1995 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 13, 2010, 07:46 PM
    Why does my boyfriend treat me like crap?
    Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years now and we are both 16, and I love him with all my heart I'd do anything I could for him. Well he said he loves me as much as I love him and I think he does but when I call him he is mean and acts like he don't want to talk to me, and when we fight he never says sorry even if he knows it's his fault. I have found other girls number that he got from school, he also has cheated on me once but I gave him a second chance. We had been doing really good for a while and just in the last past 2 months in has started acting like a jerk to me. Every time I get money he thinks I should give it to him. I'm happy with him when we have our good day, but when he goes to school I'm worried he is going to cheat on me or what he is doing at school. I want to talk to him but he is always mean on the phone unless he wants something, I don't know what to do? Every time I tell him I feel like he don't love me or I don't like how he treats me ,he always gets mad or says "go find a new boyfriend then" or "i guess you'll go find a new boyfriend then". Please please please help me I need help I feel like a sinking ship!
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    Enigma1999 Posts: 2,223, Reputation: 1077
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    Oct 13, 2010, 09:35 PM

    "Why does my boyfriend treat me like crap?"

    Because you let him.

    He is what I call a scrub.

    He is right about one thing though, "Go find a new boyfriend then." That is probably the best advice he ever gave you.

    Sorry to sound so harsh. You are young and can do better.

    Good luck.
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    Oct 13, 2010, 09:43 PM

    People treat you the way you let them. As long as you put up with it, he'll continue to treat you like crap.

    I have to ask. If he's such a jerk, why do you want to be with him?

    I have enemies that treat me better than he does you.

    You're 16, don't saddle yourself with this loser, go find someone that will treat with respect. Respect yourself enough to know that you deserve to be treated well.
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    Oct 14, 2010, 02:58 AM

    Leave him at the earliest.
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    Mar 31, 2011, 08:16 PM
    Yeah if he treats you like that then leave him. I had a boyfriend like that and he broke my heart because I let him.
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