[Loopyloo63]

Ive been with my man a few weeks. He has been doing truck driving. We initially met online and still use their chat room when we are not together. On a weekend with him at his flat he told a friend he loved me so much he wanted to marry me. This week he messaged me to say that a lot of money had gone from his account and he was going to the bank. When I asked how he got on he said they couldn't help him then last night I went online and his chat button was on but his photos and details were being deleted. I hit chat button and was told this is not ***** I'm deleting his things who are you whhen I asked who they are they said don't matter who I am. Then they typed my job is done. After the business with the money I immediately though he was being hacked and kept trying to phone him though in hindsight he was on the oroad and sleeping. In the morning I got a text saying I made him late and in the afternoon one saying he was so late with the load that he has been sacked. Says he was only doing it for 1 more week to pay the person who took the money as he owes them still. I have apologised and have said I will get the money there's a deadline to the end of week, I told him if the boot was on the other foot hed do the same if he thought I was being hacked and id forgive him. Anyway first he told me never to contact him again we could have been good but you cost me too much but then I offered to raise it and he said if you can by thurs great if not I'm stuck. Will he come round and see I was only trying to help or have I lost him?

[Kurte9542]

Doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. If he doesn't apologize, then you're probably better off finding someone else.

[answerme_tender]

Come on, you need to wake up here, not to be harsh. This guy is not on the up and up. Now if his bank account was REALLY hacked into don't you think he would have been in contact with some type of law enforcement. Then he goes on to say that he still owes them. Oh and that you have caused him to loose money because he couldn't deliver his load. Because he couldn't get his lazy backside up and drive.
Then you offer to raise the money that he owes! Come on I know its hard to feel alone, not to have that special someone in your life, but there is no excuse for not using our commen sense. This guy is a user. If someone is already claiming their undying love and talking marriage in couple of weeks, your warning lights should be sounding big time. Most people take their times in the beginning of a relationship. Yes, I have heard about love at first sight, but that isn't the norm.
Don't give up hope, there is the right man out there for you.

[mmresd]

Look it really doesn't seem like he likes you that much if he seems to be coming up with bull excuses of why he is breaking up with you. Stop worrying about a guy that doesn't even care if you care about him and find someone that actually will give you the time of day.

Good Luck,

Javi

[talaniman]

Don't be stupid, and give a guy you don't know any money!! His wife probably cleaned him out if what he says is true.