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ScrummyMummy93 · Oct 10, 2010, 04:16 PM

Me and my partner have been together a year and a half and he has been with me since I was 7 month pregnant, my daughters real dad hit me when pregnant and he's violent and takes drugs he's got lots on his record and I've got child protection involved with him also social services I got told if I went back to him I would have my daughter taken away, my daughter has been braught up by my partener and he pays for everything she gets. She's 1 now and calls him daddy because that's all she knows he's been the best daddy and helped me with courts and things, my ex got found guily in court and punished for hitting me, Could my partner adopt my daughter as he has done so much will the bio farther need to do anything as he's banned from seeing her he's got injunction out on him to keep away he's not aloud to see her ever. Help me please.

cdad · Oct 10, 2010, 04:45 PM

Is there a reason you want to give up your child? Since your not married then your asking the courts to allow another to adopt your child. I never get that part.

If he marries you and you have a stable relationship for more then 1 years time then seek the courts permission it may be allowed. You will still have to seek the bio fathers permission. Also there is no restraining order that lasts a lifetime for a child. And if the bio father wants to get visitation he may have to jump through hoops but most likely it will be given to him. There is no never ever in court.

ScrummyMummy93 · Oct 10, 2010, 04:48 PM

So Basically There Is No Way He Will Adopt Her?

Fr_Chuck · Oct 10, 2010, 04:52 PM

He needs to be married to you and the bio father will need to sign over his rights to allow the adoption ( to make it the easiest) next did the order for no visit come from family court as part of the child custody agreement ?

ScrummyMummy93 · Oct 10, 2010, 04:55 PM

My solicitor is a family and child solicitor, and he's not on her birthcertificate, and he has been told by social services and child protection that he's not aloud custidy (carnt spell ) is that any help to you fr_chuck?

ScottGem · Oct 10, 2010, 06:22 PM

If you have a solicitor then why not ask them? The solicitor will tell you what requirements you need to meet to allow for adoption. Its not a no that he can't adopt, but you have to meet the legal requirements.