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    swl793 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 10, 2010, 12:21 AM
    I don't want to be in a relationship, but I like him?
    OK, well there is a guy I'm crazy about. I spend time with him when we can, like before classes and Friday nights. This last Friday night, we were at a game and ended up holding hands after he beat up my ex, who was yelling at me and calling me a slut because I was with a new guy. (its been 5 months, I'm entitled to it!) but because my ex always was horrible to me, I don't think I can be in a relationship yet. But I know this guy wants to ask me out. I don't know what to do, please help!
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    Oct 10, 2010, 04:06 AM
    Something similar happened to me too. I had a really hard time thinking about what to do, but I was lucky that he listened to me and tried to understand me. This helped me a lot to take the right decision and I accepted sooner than I expected to.

    If you have a close friendship he may understands you too and things will get better. I advice you to tell him the truth about your feeling against a relationship, but it's up to you, you know him best.
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    Oct 10, 2010, 06:12 AM

    Why not just be honest with the new guy and tell him how you're feeling? You may be surprised to find that he's truly understanding.

    If you aren't ready, don't jump into another relationship, but you might want to hold onto him as a friend and buddy.
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    Oct 10, 2010, 07:50 AM
    ERROR: You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Devorameira again.


    Be as honest with him as you have been with yourself, and us.
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