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Sowrdsman255 · Sep 21, 2010, 07:22 PM

So there's this girl at my school that likes me... But the problem is I don't really like her. And I don't want to be mean and say no but I really don't want to say yes. Anyone have some advice?

Wondergirl · Sep 21, 2010, 07:26 PM

No to what? Yes to what?

Aurora_Bell · Sep 21, 2010, 07:31 PM

If you don't like her, than don't pare her feelings by trying to be nice and not saying "no". Just be honest. Explain that you don't have romantic feelings towards her, but you do like her as a friend and hope to continue to be her friend.

It will be far less embarrassing for you to be up right and honest in the beginning than stringing her along.

hockeychick4123 · Sep 27, 2010, 05:42 PM

Well coming from a girls perspective,
I liked a guy for 6 months before he finally told me he didn't like me.
Just don't tell her that you don't like her; just simply say something like, "I don't really want a girlfriend right now." Make sure that you are nice to her, right after you tell her that you don't want to date DO NOT stop talking to her.
Get her # from someone, don't ask her though. Texting is a lot easier than talking and can do the same purpose.

kateriinaaa · Oct 4, 2010, 06:18 PM

You got to tell the girl the truth... it would be better than you lying to her. Because lying will hurt her even more because when the truth comes out she will be like damn he just felt bad for me. And she will feel worse lol try setting her up with someone she would be better off with.

Sowrdsman255 · Oct 25, 2010, 07:25 PM

Ok, so I asked out a girl at my school. She hasn't said yes or no yet and now I'm not so sure if I made the right choice. I don't mean to sound bad but I found out that this other girl that I've liked likes me. So now I'm not sure what to do.

rebeccahstrean · Oct 25, 2010, 07:37 PM

What you need to do is figure out which one you like and think that you will be with for a long time. Then sit one of them down and say I like you but I have someone else... but don't expect that the one that you turn down will go out with you if she knows you didn't go out with her for another girl... cause then she'll think she's your back up girl. Or you can just find someone else and do it that way and not get cought up in this mess. Just make sure you never do this again.

Sowrdsman255 · Oct 25, 2010, 07:51 PM

Ok, so I asked out this girl at my school. It's kind of the usuall I'm the football player she's a cheerleader. Bur now I found out that this girl that I used to and sort of still do like her. The girl I asked out hasn't said yes or no yet. So I don't want to sound bad but I'm starting to have second thoughts of going out with her. So I really want to know what to do.

Wondergirl · Oct 25, 2010, 08:07 PM

You must wait until the girl you asked out gives you an answer.

There will be plenty of opportunities to ask out the other girl.

Sowrdsman255 · Oct 25, 2010, 08:20 PM

Haha I agree with that one

mmresd · Oct 26, 2010, 07:47 AM

First, you need to decide which one you like "more", because it is obvious that you like them both. But you don't want to be stuck in a position where you are with them and you are having to juggle between girls because 1. it is extremely exhausting, and 2. they will eventually notice! So make up your mind and go after that girl, if it doesn't work at least it is good that you have kept your eyes on more than one girl and not obsessed over one. Don't cheat and respect women as they are not toys to be played with.

Wait for her response and when you get it, if it was a no, then you can try things with the girl that you think you still like. If she says yes, then you have to make an option that if you are going to actually want to be with her or if you are going to chase the other girl. Do not do both though, you will not only hurt them, but you will hurt yourself.

Good Luck,

Javi