[davidrp61]

I been with the woman I love for 3.5 years.lived together for 2.5years. She has an issue with trusting me.she says she sees me gawking @ young girls,little white lies I have told to avoid arguments.example she wanted me to send my son to camp.I told her I didn't have the money.1 month later she realized I had money in my savings.that was for emergency and to buy our home together.. so now I'm not honest and deceiving.
One morning her best friend called me @work one morning and thought my girlfriend. Was mad at her.then she started complaining about her marriage.and telling me all about the fighting and arguing.
She then said how happy my girlfriend and I look,always going out etc.she wishes her marriage was like our relationship.I told her every relationship has problems that's what makes kiss and makeup fun.I told her that we to have our problems and told her about an incident which my girlfriend broke my new lcd TV because I wasted 10.00 on a yard sign off a school cheerleader.
I told her friend what you do when you love someone is you forgive them.and that's what I did I forgive the woman I love so much.my girlfriend. Did replace the tvt and cried and said she's sorry.I felt terrible she had to spend 1300.00 for another TV.so I told her when the new TV arrived I will send back the one you broke saying it came broke.they did send us another TV.now she mad at me for committing fraud getting her a new TV .
Since then her best friend and my girlfriend got into a fight and she told my girlfriend what I told her about the TV.and some other lies.
I was trying to show her friend this is what you do when you love someone you forgive them.my girlfriend. Thinks her girlfriend.and I was having a pitty party an emotional affair.now my girlfriend moved out and is mad as hell at me.
She's seeing someone else she and wants her space.I haven't slept in 7 weeks she says there just friends.she told me she don't trust me.all I was trying to do was help get my girlfriend. And her friend back together and now I lost the one I love so much.
Was it wrong for me to tell her friend about an incident in our relationship?is this really relationship ending?I was not talking about my girlfriend behind her back.you don't do that to someone you love.I wish she would trust me.I never ever intended to hurt her.I want her back in my life so bad.I need honest answers so I can forward this question to her.need answers for men and women... thank everybody

[JoeCanada76]

Okay, Honestly your better off without. It sounds like a match made in well He%%.

I think you are having a pity party and you need to get over it and let it go. Move forward. Do not keep looking back. Do not keep dwelling on what could be. This situation is not good and your better off without.

You may say you love her, but does she love you?

There are many other people out there that want a normal relationship.

JOe

[talaniman]

It does sound like there are issues that need to be worked on and if you must tell little white lies and all your actions are questioned and lead to negative reactions then you should be glad for the break and carry on with your life without her. Do not call or contact her nor always be available to her. Time to accept who she is, what she wants, and the crap you went through being with her. Time can heal this if you let it.