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    irock2006 Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 5, 2010, 04:13 AM
    He wants me back after 5 months
    I used to date someone.. I am 19 and he's 22 years old. I dated him for 3 months and things began to worsen between us in the last month as I suspected that he was cheating on me or at least giving the impression to other women that he's single... we fought all the time, and he never understood my needs, so I ended the relationship and moved on.. Now, 5 months or so later, he sent me a message telling me that he still loves me.. Not to mention that through the 5 months that we've been broken up, I kept hearing from him that he still wants me. Unfortunately it doesn't mean a thing to me. Is ignoring him the right things to do?

    I know that the answer lies within me, but there is no harm in asking for different opinions maybe?

    Thank you
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    Sep 5, 2010, 04:19 AM

    I agree, ignore him.

    If you have been in contact before now start no contact,that includes social sites text etc.

    He will get the message and move on.
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    #3

    Sep 5, 2010, 07:01 AM

    Ignore him . You left after 3 months for a reason. Don't go back to that.
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    Sep 6, 2010, 06:46 AM

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental...en-465042.html

    Is this the same guy or did you have feelings for two guys at the same time or was this guy a friend while you were dating this other guy?

    Once you stop dating, especially for the reasons you have given, its best to ignore him now, so you both can move on to better things.
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    Sep 9, 2010, 04:47 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental...en-465042.html

    Is this the same guy or did you have feelings for two guys at the same time or was this guy a friend while you were dating this other guy?

    Once you stop dating, especially for the reasons you have given, its best to ignore him now, so you both can move on to better things.
    Actually no its not the same guy. This was only a crush which fortunately I got over. This was after I broke up with the guy (on this thread).
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    Sep 9, 2010, 05:04 AM

    Ignore him, and move beyond this guy as you did the other guy.
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    Sep 9, 2010, 07:12 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by irock2006 View Post
    , i kept hearing from him that he still wants me. unfortunately it doesn't mean a thing to me.
    You answered your own question. Just leave it alone and ignore him. He'll get the hint eventually.
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    Sep 9, 2010, 08:32 AM

    If you are concerned about being rude for ignoring him, don't worry about it. Some people want to stay friends or have the ex see them in the best possible light, however, that rarely works out.

    You have already found that living your own life and leaving him to live his is working for you. It's fixed-don't break it.
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