[helpper]

I have not say it to my dad , I do not like them I can not take my shirt off in front of others because of armpit and chest hair I am really confused , what should I do.

[Dysenchanted]

The other people are probably just pointing it out because they don't have any or their jealous. I'd try not to let it get to you.

I guess if it really bothers you though, maybe trim it? I know a few guys who have really long armpit hair and they just use an electric razor to trim (not completely shave) it.

But really, it's a part of growing up. How old are you? Even if you're getting body hair earlier than most others, they'll get it eventually. This awkward period won't last long.

[cdad]

Don't worry about it. Its not what others think its what they know that counts. And if the others are strangers then they know nothing of you. For everyone at everystage its different. So don't worry about it.

[Dysenchanted]

i am 17 year old and i embaresed to take my shirt of in front of them not becuase they look at me be cuase i suddenly get nervous and becuase of my chest hair and my armpit(they are normal) i can't be shirtless ot even go swiming:( what should i do?

Well this sounds like an insecurity problem. There's nothing I can say that will make you feel better about your body. Body hair is natural and it sounds like you're completely normal.

Just try not to think about it. If you can't, maybe just don't take your shirt off.

Is there another question besides how not to be nervous? If not, you just really need to try to calm yourself down and not think about it.