[duanumz]

Recently she's ignored me the last few days then text me on a night saying sorry that she's in a weird mood, then asks me to text her yet when she goes up her mates, I get no response, I'm really suspicious but don't know seen as I've told her if she don't want me she should leave, but she says she does? :/ help

I've only been with my girlfriend about two weeks and I realize its all early stages, I'm 20 and have had enough of the fast life, I've had too many partners and a relationship no longer then 4 months, in a way I think it sets on my mentality I just want to know what I'm doing wrong and whether I should leave now ? Even though I've liked this girl for about a year, basically we were fine all the last week saw each other a lot, had great times together, and then one night she mentioned having to meet her ex to get her stuff back and I got a little paranoid, the day after she ignored me all day and all weekend, sending me small texts saying she was sorry and that she was in a weird mood, she's been like it all for four days and now were talking but she's blunt its all one word answers, yet she tells me she still likes me? Any suggestions or answer would be well appreciated as I'm lost and suffering from over stress

[silverlining]

It's only been 2 weeks... take it easy. At this stage you shouldn't stress about things like this just enjoy eachothers company :)

[beachloverjohn]

Sometimes the best thing to do is nothing. In your case, I would give her some space, and not try to push her into explaining her actions or question her feelings. You are in the very early stages of dating, and perhaps she feels you are rushing her. Let her move at her own pace, don't expose your heart too soon, and try to get to know each other better before you give and expect too much. I don't think you should give up, but at the same time don't give her too much power over your life.. It is way too soon.

[Kitkat22]

She's allowed to have friends. If she has cheated before then you would have something to worried about.

Just because she is with friends and doesn't text you every minute
Doesn't mean anything.

[karen_dream]

If you feel something's not right already and you don't like some of the things that's going on you should mention it to her, if she keeps doing things like that and your still insecure then don't be with her.?.

[talaniman]

Why worry guy, she is with you, and you don't have to keep track of her every move, or even question her every mood. Give her some breathing space until she is ready to talk.