[Italy576]

Me and this girl started to get close to each other this summer. We would text each other everyday, talk on Face Book for long amounts of time, and flirt with each other on some occasions. Before school ended, this girl seemed very interested in me because she would come up to me everyday to see how I was doing, was very nice to me, asked for my help with stuff, and sometimes try to flirt with me. She even started to refer to me as her best friend, which meant the world to me. I sometimes flirted back and I believe we both enjoyed it and we were becoming really good friends. I started to develop feelings for her and thought that she was just perfect in every way. Well, all of a sudden we just stopped talking to each other because she has no texting now and I tried to call her, but no answer. A friend told me she has no feelings for me, but I don't know how true that is. Also, I plan to see her tomorrow at a fair and I really hope we can continue to talk to each other like we have been doing. What do you guys think I should do next?

[Dysenchanted]

I guess the best thing to do, to either move things along or get closure, is to straight up ask her.

If you're not willing to ask if she likes you, maybe ask "Hey, where have you been, I miss talking to you" or something.

Unfortunately, if she responds negitavely, I'd let her go. There's plenty of other girls out there and maybe just keep her as a friend. Good luck!

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes, just talk to her personally about it. Too many things could be happening

[Italy576]

Well, school started and I saw my friend and I also sit right by her in every class. I had a chance to say, "hey how are you doing" and she replied by saying, "hey". Then the next day, she really paid no attention to me. We bumped into each other in the hallway and moved on with our day. Later that day, I said on FB, "Lmao we bumped into each other in the hallway". She commented by saying, " I didn't even notice". I think she is somewhat mad at me because of how awkward I made things? I wished her a Happy Birthday last week and I do say hi to her when I see her. She sometimes says hi back, but in class she just ignores me like I am not there. What should I do now?

[Italy576]

P.S I really do not know if she is mad at me, I just think she might want to just spend time away from me and I respect that. Do you guys think I should just leave things the way they are and wait it out or just talk to her one on one?

[Italy576]

Starting on the second day I just minded my own business and did not say much to her. Because on the first day she did not seem to joyful to see me and just really seemed like she did not want to talk to me.

[cdad]

Italy576 : One more thing she knows I like her because my friend told her, so that is what I mean by awkward. I just think she is thinking,"why won't this guy just leave me alone"? I hope this is not the case, but if it is then I am probably screwed.


You need to ask her directly and accept what she tells you. If she doesn't want to see you anymore then accept it and move on. Your starting to act like a stalker. Be careful with this.

[Italy576]

All right, she has started to talk to me again on FB and in school. She asks me questions about school work and comments on my posts I make on FB. Also I have noticed that she sometimes looks at me in class. I know I should not get my hopes up, but I am very happy that we are talking to each other again and that's really all I want right now and we could see what the future holds for us. I think I may have a chance at her still, but I am going to take things slow and not rush anything. What do you guys think? Also thanks for all the advice guys.

[Kitkat22]

Stay friends. She'll let you know
If she's interested. How old are you and the girl?

[Italy576]

16