[sackings_pepsi]

Yesterday, I went out with this girl to a bar to had a drink with her, it was our first time seeing each other. We knew each other from a friend on Facebook. So we went there, each of us got a drink, we talked for more than 1.5 hours. I feel like we connected, and I had a lot of fun talking to her. She is bit older than me, I am 25, she is 31. She got divorced couple month ago, her ex was cheating on her and left her to another country. (kinda messed up)

Today I asked her if she want to go watch movie with me tomorrow, she said yes.

So, we are just hanging out or are we on dates? I am confused. (I just got out of a committed relationship 4 month ago, I guess I am back on the dating market)

[redhed35]

Sounds like a date to me.

Take it easy,just enjoy her company there's no need to rush anything.

[adam_89]

I would have to say it would be a date. Hope everything goes well with the date, after a few more meetings, you will know for sure. I don't think she would hang around if there was no interest.

[imation]

Date. Do yourself a favour and take it slow, and have fun! :)

[sackings_pepsi]

We also talk to each other online at nights. But I feel like maybe I shouldn't talk to her too much, I don't want to make her think I am bored at home. But I just do enjoy talking to her. So what are your advises here? She never initiate the chat, I was the one who always message her first.

[adam_89]

If it would make you feel comfortable, then let her bring the chat next time. That way, you will know she is interested and you won't seem pushy.

[talaniman]

Hanging out- Having fun with a friend. No romance.

Dating-Having fun with a friend you hope to get to know well enough to pursue romance with.

Which are you doing? Never mind, you are just hanging out as friends (I bet that's what she thinks any way). Go slow, and get to know who you are dealing with before you think about romance.