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    Sep 2, 2010, 03:51 PM
    Will I compare every guy I meet with my ex?
    My ex boyfriend broke up with me after a great relationship.. I was shocked.. I loved him so much but maybe I drove him away.. I don't know.. I still love him till now. I'm so afraid that I will compare every guy I meet with him. The way he look,the way he treated me,his voice,his love.. will I be able to forget him and start a new relation ship without him in my head??
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    Sep 2, 2010, 04:08 PM

    I don't think that will ever forget him. I remember every name of every girl I liked.

    The goal is not to forget him, it is to get over him and you will. You will find someone that will love you and never want to leave you.
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    Sep 2, 2010, 05:10 PM

    Over time his voice will dim and his love will be a distant shadow.

    It will be replaced with a new voice that will make your heart race and blood boil.

    And when you find that new vibe.. he will be nothing but a reminder of a great time.. way back then.
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    Sep 2, 2010, 06:58 PM

    It's very normal to feel this way early in the breakup , but you'll find with time that will pass.

    Will you forget him , probably not , will you compare him to other guys , probably yes. But you'll also find that comparing him can work in your favour , because you'll be able to see his faults when somebody better comes along.
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    Sep 2, 2010, 07:17 PM

    Of course you'll be comparing him. Only to see what a waste of time your ex truly was, and that he was not the one for you. That he didn't treat you right and never truly loved you or he would've never broken up with you. And for that, he is a fool and that's his loss.

    Good luck.

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