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    amesiibabii Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 31, 2010, 05:16 AM
    Why cant my boyfriend climax during sex
    Hi there,
    I have been with my boyfriend for 16months and he hasn't climax during sex at all and he won't even have sex with me but he is a addicted to mastabating!
    He has tried stopping but he keeps getting wet dreams and temptation to mastabate!
    Any advice.
    Thanks
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    Aug 31, 2010, 07:50 AM

    Until his other problems are solved, he will not have anything left for you.
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    Aug 31, 2010, 09:02 AM

    This is a problem with guys who masterbate a lot.

    The cure is easy! The only way you are going to have success here is if he wants to fix the problem and gives up masturbation.
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    Sep 1, 2010, 04:41 AM

    How old are both of you?

    As with any addiction or habit of any type, unless he wants to give it up/get better then there is nothing you can do.

    You can't control or change what he does. You can give him support and help IF he wants to change.

    You have to decide if you are willing to live with things the way they are or if for your own peace of mind and self-esteem, you need to move on.

    Be aware that your staying involved may be enabling him to think that everything is okay and that he doesn't have to do more to correct the problem.
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