Need Help!

lovestinks · Jan 11, 2007, 02:31 AM

So I basically have a HUGE problem! And I need some serious help. Okay so I've had a boyfriend we went out for like 2 years an we've been "messin around" for like 4 5 he's slept with a whole bunch of my friends and sometimes he acts like he don't care about me an I know he does deep down inside an now he's with my friend and I don't want to move on I want him and only him. I don't know how to get him back any advice?

J_9 · Jan 11, 2007, 02:42 AM

My advice is to move on.

He sounds like a player. You actually want to be with a man who has slept with a "whole bunch" of your friends?

You say "sometimes he acts like he dont care about me." He don't. Actually, he doesn't. If he did he would not be with your friend.

See, in the real world when a real man and woman break up, they don't start dating the friends of their ex's. It is an unspoken rule that friends are off limits.

This guy is a player, go find someone who will treat you right.

kryst20 · Jan 11, 2007, 03:54 AM

Originally Posted by lovestinks

So i basicly have a HUGE problem! and i need some serious help. okay so ive had a boyfriend we went out for like 2 years an we've been "messin around" for like 4 5 hes slept with a whole bunch of my friends and sometimes he acts like he dont care about me an i know he does deep down inside an now hes with my friend and i dont want to move on i want him and only him. i dont know how to get him back any advice?

Honey I do not want to be harsh but it sounds to me like you've got a player on your hands. You do not need help getting him back you need help moving on. Why do you want some sloppy 2nds or 3rds or 4ths or whatever he may be?? You are worth more than that you deserve better.

danradcliffe879 · Jan 11, 2007, 05:02 AM

Move On! Dude!!

chuff · Jan 11, 2007, 04:29 PM

You will never get him back. You are just a booty call when he's bored.

ordinaryguy · Jan 11, 2007, 06:55 PM

Originally Posted by lovestinks

sometimes he acts like he dont care about me an i know he does deep down inside

No, he doesn't care about you "deep down inside" or anywhere else except his crotch. All he cares about is himself and getting his rocks off with as many girls as he can. There's nothing deep or mysterious or complicated about him. Get as far away from him and your so-called friends that he's banging as you can. They're not your friends. You deserve better, so insist on it.

chuff · Jan 11, 2007, 08:44 PM

Originally Posted by ordinaryguy

No, he doesn't care about you "deep down inside" or anywhere else except his crotch. All he cares about is himself and getting his rocks off with as many girls as he can. There's nothing deep or mysterious or complicated about him. Get as far away from him and your so-called friends that he's banging as you can. They're not your friends. You deserve better, so insist on it.

Oh NOOOO!! I tried to rep you but I had to spread it. This is an answer straight out the Chuff playbook and my only regret is I didn't use it. This answer is TREMENDOUS and FACTUAL.