[mybalance]

My boyfriend has a bad habit of using vulger terminolgy while having sex. Everything is great until then, but it's also a big turn off for me. How can I tell him without hurting his feelings?

[ScottGem]

First, please take some time to see how people use this site. The subject line is for a brief description of your question, please fill it in. I've change the default subject for you as an example. You should choose a forum that is appropriate for your question. I've moved this from Forum Help (which is for questions about using this site).

To answer your question you put the blame on yourself. Tell him that it's a turn off for you and you don't want to be turned off so you can provide greater pleasure for him.

[mybalance]

Thanks ScottGem, your answer helped a lot!

[Clough]

Hi, mybalance!

You could also try the proactive way of giving him positive feedback when he does say things that help to turn you on.

Thanks!