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    CHRISTINA7 Posts: 19, Reputation: 1
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    #21

    Aug 18, 2010, 06:29 PM

    Sex isn't anything special. You will give yourself to him then he will leave. What will you have ? Zero, nothing. I have a good friend and she has sex with a close friend and they had feelings and he wasn't a virgin and she was and she doesn't regret it because they have a bond. Well now no you should
    Not. I
    Know the idea of having sex is amazing and
    Romantic and it would make
    Him happy and you want
    To
    Experience it too. No you should not. Really trust me. Please trust me. Being a
    Virgin is a beautiful thing and you want
    To
    Give yourself to
    Him? You can say no.&if he still tries and you say no he might dump you. Don't do it.&if
    You do you will see what will happen. I'm
    Not saying it's a sin. Do
    It and know you won't be hurt. My friend knew she won't and when you have that gut feeling go for
    It.
    If you want a parents view point talk to
    Yours if they are very protective try 2 most likely they won't open up depends. But
    Don't do it without an adult backing you up. Mayb a aunt or someone you can trust.
    Good luck :-)
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    #22

    Aug 18, 2010, 06:48 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by CHRISTINA7 View Post
    Sex isn't anything special. You will give urself to him then he will leave. What will you have ? Zero, nothing. I have a good friend and she has sex with a close friend and they had feelings and he wasn't a virgin and she was and she doesn't regret it becuz they have a bond. Well now no you should
    Not. I
    Know the idea of having sex is amazing and
    Romantic and it would make
    Him happy and you want
    To
    Experience it too. No you should not. Really trust me. Please trust me. Being a
    Virgin is a beautiful thing and you want
    To
    Give yourself to
    Him? You can say no.&if he still tries n u say no he might dump you. Don't do it.&if
    You do you will see what will happen. I'm
    Not saying it's a sin. Do
    It and know you won't be hurt. My friend knew she won't and when you have that gut feeling go for
    It.
    If you want a parents view point talk to
    Yours if they r very protective try 2 most likely they won't open up depends. But
    Don't do it without an adult backing you up. Mayb a aunt or someone you can trust.
    Good luck :-)
    Christina no chat or text speak on this site.
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    CHRISTINA7 Posts: 19, Reputation: 1
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    #23

    Aug 18, 2010, 07:21 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    We are talking about a child here? Did you read the question? It was written by a confused child.
    Why in the world are you saying if she wants to have sex it's her right?
    She's not even old enough to drive a car, let alone have sex. She's probably still in middle school.

    You don't want to have sex with this boy, don't. You're too young anyway. You don't have sex just because some one wants to. It's your body not his. Tell him NO!
    Exactly.
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    hallie78 Posts: 38, Reputation: 2
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    #24

    Nov 24, 2010, 09:49 PM

    If you are 13 or 14... I'm 14 and I think you should wait. I know in all the shows and movies they support teenage sex but don't do it. All it does is lead to kids, infections, and heartbreaks. Its really not worth it! Good Luck! Do what you think is right!
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    #25

    Feb 12, 2013, 06:21 PM
    OK I'm 16 now you all its been to years and thanks to all those who said I should at LEAST u were not negative and to the person who said I don't have a choice in it well sorry to say I did so haha and to the girl who said she was 14 thanks for your input

    And too late with the pregnant part I wanted to be and now I am and familylover your right it was MY M. Y. choice
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    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
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    #26

    Feb 12, 2013, 06:34 PM
    Do you have the finances to take care of this child? Do you have the education to get a job to support this child? Does the father of this child have a job?
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    #27

    Feb 12, 2013, 06:41 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by rollie-pollie View Post
    and too late with the pregnant part I wanted to be and now I am and familylover ur right it was MY M. Y. choice
    You're 16, you're pregnant, and you're proud of it?

    Heaven help us all if this is the next generation. :(
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    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
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    #28

    Feb 12, 2013, 07:02 PM
    The good news is you can tell how well educated the OP is, that she'll clearly be able to support this child.

    If you read the other threads you will see she just got out of "treatment" (whatever that is) and wasn't terribly happy about the pregnancy 5 minutes ago.

    Sounds like another disturbed child having a child.

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