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    Aug 15, 2010, 03:25 PM
    I love him but he's changed
    I've been with my husband for almost two years now. We have a beautiful daughter together. He's always been controlling but over the course of our relationship he's gotten worse. He's overseas in Iraq right now. But anything I do I get yelled at for. And he always sides with his parents. I love him with all my heart but I am so unhappy with the way things are with us right now I don't know if I can continue it. I've tried to talk to him about it but it's always his way or no way. I've lost myself. I don't even know who I am anymore because of the way his controllingness has changed me into someone I'm not. Just looking for an opinion. Maybe some advice.
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    Aug 15, 2010, 03:48 PM

    I doubt he has really changed, only getting more and more controlling as you have allowed him to control.

    So don't get yelled out, when he starts, leave the house, or the room. Explain to him you will not allow him to treat you as a child and he is not to yell at you.. If he continues, do a temp separation till he agrees to go to counseling with you
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    Aug 15, 2010, 04:02 PM

    How does his Dad treat his Mom?
    Don't be a doormat. For the sake of your child, I hope you can work this out.

    If it isn't possible the baby is better off living in a tranquil environment.

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