[chaseroo]

My girlfriend and I, are engaged, almost a year now, she still talks to people on Facebook like omg we've been dating for 9 months 8 days, and stuff of that sort, he cooked for me it was so cute. But she came home today from her cosmotology school, crying, she said I'm stressed out, I don't want to talk about it, please chase stop, I am just stressed do I need a damn reason? And it was OK when she got here, just after she laid down and she said I never take her out, which is because I don't have the money atm for anything, I scrape getting her to school. But when she laid down she rolled away and just started crying. She's asleep atm that's why I got on here, she's **** if I was asking but I can't talk to her she never finishes a talk without getting aggrivated because its about her, she acts like nothing she does is wrong everythings my fault. But off subject, what could be the problem please someone help me before I do something stupid.

[YeloDasy]

You just need to sit down and have an adult conversation, what is working, what is not working, and go from there... find solutions to what is not working, and find ways to do more of what IS working.

[chaseroo]

What exactly do you mean by this, like figure out if our relationship is working in ways?

[martinizing2]

It is difficult if not impossible to try and make a relationship work without communication.

I would tell her that if the two of you cannot find a way to calmly communicate , that there is little hope of the relationship surviving.
Honesty and communication have to be the basis of a relationship. If either one is missing or weak , the chance of failure is great.

Without communication you speculate about how the other person feels and thinks.
When you know how they feel, because they tell you , it makes it easier to address and act on the problem.

Whatever it takes to open the lines of communication must be done if you are to continue in a relationship and make it a happy and content one.