[scaredno7]

I have been trying for a baby for 1year and 4months now, it seems never ending the pain month after month that nothing happens, I am 20 and so is my partner we decided young to have a child but we have been together years its only natural to feel this way with him. I don't no what else I can do, I have tried advice from quite a few people already I just don't no what else I can do, the doctors won't help because they think I'm to young, and I can't afford to get tests done, I'm stuck.

[J_9]

I will start with the main reason the doctors probably won't help. It is typically because you are not married. Physicians find it hard to help an unmarried woman have a child and then run the risk of bringing that child up in a broken home. Is this right? Not really. But you have to understand how hard it really is to bring a child up and that it is easier for a man to walk out of the relationship than if he were married. Also, if you can't afford the tests, how are you going to afford the child, which is MUCH more expensive!

With that said, are your periods regular? Do you know when you ovulate? Have you ever been on birth control? If so, what kind and for how long?

Let's start here and see if any of this helps.

[scaredno7]

My boyfriend is a policeman, and we have plans to marry, in 2008, I do no when I ovulate and although my periods can be irregular but I no when I ovulate I was on the pill 1 year and four months ago, I was on that since I was 16 and 1/2. thanks for your help