[positiveparent]

To any Females or Males out there, the moment you begin to feel you are being treated wrongly in your relationships, no matter how small it may seem, then you should do one thing and one thing only, GET OUT, dont bother trying to figure out why youre being treated badly or to make excuses for it, the bottom line is its NOT ACCEPTIBLE, so dont stay get out, if you dont, then you know what will happen, it will continue, you wont ever change a person who youve allowed to treat you badly, or show you disrespect. No matter how wonderful they are before you are badly treated, they have crossed the line of being a good partner the moment they said a nasty unkind cruel word to you in temper or not, NOTHING EXCUSES being treated badly, you can spend forever trying to find a way of putting it right, you wont find one because you after it happened once as good as told your partner, hey its ok treat me like a piece of dirt, anytime you want, you indirectly are allowing them to treat you badly, so either get out and move on, or tolerate it. Its your choice, anyone who tolerates even slight bad treatment is enabling the other to continue doing it. I know Ive been there.

Dont be a sucker, dump the **cker.

Check link in my signature for more information on toxic relationships.[/I]

[talaniman]

I hope everyone reads this and takes heed!