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    Jan 6, 2007, 03:18 PM
    CONFUSION in a relationship- if u can call it one
    I really like this Senior, I am a Freshman. We've become really good friends over the course of the past few months. He's got a lot of friends, and I'm just one of his new ones. Hes one of those guys that Hugs all his friends.

    My friend was IMing him and they started talking about me (Ikes)

    He supposedly said that I'm cute and he likes my hair.

    I get all tongue twisted when I talk to him. Ive really started to like him and now he thinks I like him - which I do. But I don't think he likes me-- in that way.

    Hes actually one of the good guys, though you probably think he's not, that's what everyone thinks.

    But when my friend asked if he liked me he said "you never know, anything could happen"
    WHAT DOES THAT MEAN!! I'm so confused.
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    Jan 6, 2007, 03:29 PM
    Don't get excited, he was talking to someone else, so easy girl. It could mean anything or it could mean nothing. Unless its said it to you don't plan your life on she said, he said.
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    Jan 7, 2007, 05:07 PM
    Im not going to plan my life on it. Im not stupid.
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    Jan 7, 2007, 06:57 PM
    It's his escape reply. He doesn't want to say 'no' because there is a chance that he might, but he's possibly going after his own person.

    Then again, this is my advice, and you don't have to listen to it at all.
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    Jan 8, 2007, 03:52 PM
    OK well today at school he was being a little bit flirty. Me and my friends were talking about lipgloss and crap and he started making coments about me wearing the lipgloss and him kissing me... that doesn't mean anything?
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    Jan 8, 2007, 04:54 PM
    He is rather flirty isn't he? Bet your attracted to his eay confident manner and for sure that devil smile. Does he have dimples? Older guys are so much cooler than guys your age aren't they?
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    Jan 9, 2007, 05:47 PM
    I am so confused. I want him to know but then again I don't, its so complicated. I guess I'm just afraid of rejection. I want to be his girlfriend but I don't know if he wants one. And if so if he wants me. Im so confused and I am dying inside. What

    I was IMing him and I said BRB and he said OK I came back 5 minutes later and he signed off with out even saying bye or anything this saddens me.
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    Jan 9, 2007, 06:00 PM
    Take it easy. First he's a senior, and will be gone next year. Second as a freshman, your attracted to this older guy, but to tell the truth he may not be what you need right now, so instead of obsessing on him, time to focus on other things in your life. There will be many guys in your life and you will have to learn to deal with those feelings.
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    Jan 9, 2007, 08:29 PM
    Hello, whtup jaimie02, in my opinion I don't think you should go for a senior( don't get angry at me though!) older guys can be a little manipulative, just be careful, don't give a crap about his smile either! :)
    Ohh well l8r!
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    Jan 10, 2007, 03:27 PM
    Well I know I will sound like every other girl out there when I say this but he's different. He really is. Hes actually one of the good guys (there are few but many). I could be missreading some signs, but I think that when he sits next to ME of all the people he could be sitting with at our table and he rubs my leg or plays with my hair, that's a little flirty. Hes not a guy who will take advantage of me. He's not a liar either. I know when someone is like that, I have a 6th sense. But I'm confused

    5 minute update:
    I have a blabber mouth friend and she told nick ik like him and now I'm mad. My friends all: but you just like her as a friend rite?
    Him: for now but you never know what could happen


    This conversation took place only less than a week ago. So you think he could have had a change of heart?


    Is it possible in that short time?
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    Jan 10, 2007, 06:23 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jaimie02
    I really like this Senior, I am a Freshman. We've become really good friends over the course of the past few months. hes got a lot of friends, and im just one of his new ones. Hes one of those guys that Hugs all his friends.

    My friend was IMing him and they started talking about me (Ikes)

    He supposedly said that im cute and he likes my hair.

    i get all tounge twisted when i talk to him. Ive really started to like him and now he thinks i like him - which i do. But i dont think he likes me-- in that way.

    Hes actually one of the good guys, though you probably think hes not, thats what everyone thinks.

    But when my friend asked if he liked me he said "you never know, anything could happen"
    WHAT DOES THAT MEAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im so confused.
    He probably does like you but you never know so maybe you should call him up and ask if he wants to go for coffee or something and talk for a bit!
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    Jan 11, 2007, 03:49 PM
    Well I feel like a really bad person. I was not very nice to him today, I was having a very bad day and I was not in the mood to c him because his face reminded me of my anger with another frieng. I know that is so wrong and I feel terrible. He was really concerned about me according to my friends and now I feel bad.


    I want to talk to him about something but I never see him alone.

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