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    emilino15 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 6, 2010, 02:48 PM
    Can you fall out of love with someone in four days?
    My boyfriend was madly in love with me, but his dad is very protective of him and hardly lets him do anything. One day he said we needed a break, because he said he couldn't handle the stress of having a girlfriend during his exams. During this break, I told him that I wanted him to come to the prom with me still, and told him how much I loved him. After this message was sent, the next day he said he didn't feel the same about me, and told me it was because he had met another girl. Just four days before - when he said we needed a break, he told me earlier in the day that he loved me, and I even asked him if we were going on a break because there was someone else, and he said no. I did think that it was because of his dad, so a while after we broke up, I asked him if it was, and he said no. The next day he put a picture of him with the other girl on Facebook, and typed 'i love you' under it, but 2 months later, they are not in a relationship, and have exchanged no more messages,I know I should move on, but I need clarification first.
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    Devorameira Posts: 2,461, Reputation: 981
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    Aug 6, 2010, 02:59 PM

    IF you truly love someone I think it'd be impossible to simply fall out of love with them in 4 days. People REALLY enjoying throwing the "L" word around. What some people say is love, is NOT actually love!

    True love means more than just saying "I love you". To love someone means to be faithful, honest, respectful, kind, and thoughtful. It's very possible that he's "in lust" instead of love.

    Most of the time when a guy leaves a gal for another, it never works out. Also, keep in mind, that if he left you for her, he’ll l probably leave her for someone else. The honeymoon state of mind that he may be in with her will eventually turn into a routine. Guys have the tendency to get bored once things turn into a routine.

    It doesn't matter what the reason was, that he broke up with you. Dust yourself off, keep moving forward and do not waste your time looking back at where you have been.
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    Aug 6, 2010, 03:06 PM

    Why do you need clarification, its obvious that the boy is inconsistent and doesnt care who he hurts, why become another of his on the scrap heap ex`s.

    In 4 days so much can happen, and if a person says they fell out of love in 4 days take it that means they were never in love to begin with. This guy is just testing the waters, checking out girls here and there, to find the ones who either come across easily, or not, suit his needs or not, and play along with him. He a user and you would be better off taking off and leaving him in your dust. Put a photo of some boy you know on your own facebook page, with a caption, Real Man wanted.

    The clarification you want is as plain as the nose on your face, kick him to the curb, If he wanted you he wouldve made it known, hes a child leave him to grow up and you do some of the same. Good Luck.
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    Aug 6, 2010, 03:57 PM

    You got dumped, and lied to. Consider this clarification, so you can get beyond this, as it seems like it will be a good thing in the long run, though it sucks right now.
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    Aug 6, 2010, 04:03 PM

    He's a big liar. Don't believe him.
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    Aug 7, 2010, 05:39 AM

    If you really love someone with you heart,it can takes years to fall out of love with someone not 4 days.Me and my ex was together 8 years and been split 4 months and I still love her till this day.
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    Feb 3, 2011, 12:30 PM
    Yes. I just fell out of love with a girl that I loved in four days exactly. And I do not mean high school middle school love. It happens, feel bad for him if it is the truth, because if that can happen then it is a plague to his life.

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