[Alty]

yeah but he likes me and he doing nothing about about it .. i can tell by the way he looks at me and yes he might be my brother friend but i know that i brother wudnt mind and my brother went out with my best mate for ages. And my brother has told me that the guy likes me so i can't just forget about it .

Of course he likes you, you put out. He's 17, that's what he wants, a girl that gets drunk and does things that other 15 year olds don't do.

If you really want him, and really want to know why he isn't talking to you. Ask him. If he says it was just a drunken mistake, then move on, learn from this. If he says he likes you, realize that it may just be because of that night, and he's probably thinking that next time he can get you to go all the way, instead of just kissing.

No matter what he says, if you keep drinking and letting guys take advantage of you, that's the reputation that you'll build. Do you want to be known as the drunken floozy, or do you want better?

[Kitkat22]

Leave the guy alone. Leave the booze alone.

[x_josie_cooper_x]

Isn't being Funny or anything But No need to be like that love at the end of the day I don't nothing wrong and I had the decensy to come on here and ask for advise not aload of rubbish .

[Homegirl 50]

What you have gotten is advice.
This boy has shown you by his actions that he wants nothing to do with you.
He may not like dating siblings of his friends, so you need to respect that and leave him alone.

[Kitkat22]

What you have gotten is advice.
This boy has shown you by his actions that he wants nothing to do with you.
He may not like dating siblings of his friends, so you need to respect that and leave him alone.

We have the decency to give you our opinions. If you are waiting for anyone to tell you it was all right to get drunk and make out all night with your brothers friend, you won't get that advice here LUV.

You acted like a girl with no morals and you and this guy drinking and it is underage drinking I might add, makes you and him seem like two people who could care less about what you did.

If it's too hot in the kitchen, stay out. This is an opinion. You can like or not.

[x_josie_cooper_x]

No I am not waiting for anyone to tell me that it was right but I don't think that it was just me that was in the wrong and I get the feeling that this is what you are saying. I do care about what I did and part of me does think that it was wrong but we also kissed in the morning before I went and don't u think that I should at least get him on his own and speak to him about it instead of just forgeting about it ?

[Homegirl 50]

If he wanted to speak to you believe me he would. This guy knows what he's doing.
He may not even want to talk to you.
You need to let go of this and leave him alone.

[x_josie_cooper_x]

Yeah but he hasn't had chance to speak to me as we have only seen each other once since then and we couldn't speak really as my brother and his mate was there so we just acted normal

[Kitkat22]

no i am not waiting for anyone to tell me that it was right but i dont think that it was just me that was in the wrong and i get the feeling that this is what you are saying. i do care about what i did and part of me does think that it was wrong but we also kissed int he morning before i went and dont u think that i should at least get him on his own and speak 2 him about it instead of just forgeting about it ?

Leave him alone. NC... He is your brother's friend and that won't last if your brother finds out. Leave him alone.:(

[x_josie_cooper_x]

It will because my brother won't mind and I know this and my brother was seeing my best mate for months and we all hung out together and the only reason they split up was because my best mate moved away .

[Kitkat22]

it will because my brother wont mind and i know this and my brother was seeing my best mate for months and we all hung out together and the only reason they split up was because my best mate moved away .

What part of "leave the guy alone " do you not understand? You were a one night stand drinking binge buddy. That's all. He doesn't like you. NC. NO CALLING,TEXTING, Email, CARRIER PIGEON. Nada...

[Homegirl 50]

Just because your brother has no problem dating your friends that does not mean the same for this other guy.
If this guy wanted to talk to you, he would find a way to do it. Do you have a computer a cellphone. People can be reached if a person wants to reach them.

I think this guy got caught up in a drunk moment and does not want it repeated.
Don't go chasing him. If he likes you, he will contact you and if he does, what he says or does will answer your question.

[x_josie_cooper_x]

Yeah I understand where tour coming from now to be honest.. so out of respext I shall just give it time and wait and see what happens and I realised that he could have got in touch with me but hasn't so he either must be shy, doesn't want nothing else to happen or he thinks that I onli went with him because I was pissed so he darent say anything.. Well I shall just see where things go from here and if I have the chance to speak to him on his own abou it then I will :D

[Homegirl 50]

Just don't go chasing him. It's bad form.
Watch the text speech a use spell check. Your post can be difficult to read.

[x_josie_cooper_x]

Okay and sorry getting late so I keep misspelling words and I attomatically type in text language so I doing the best I can to speak in full english. And no I am not going to chase aftter him then I shall just leave it and see what happens but what if he does try it on again ? Do I do it and be in this position agen because I like him ? Or do I turn him down and send the wrong signals ?

[Homegirl 50]

Do what again. Get you drunk?
Don't let this boy take advantage of you.
He has ignored you after this incident. That should tell you that you are not that important to him.
If he comes at you again, tell him you are not interested.
You don't let someone take advantage of you just because you like him.

[x_josie_cooper_x]

Well my boyfriend stayed at my house last nyt but when I woke up this morning he was gone so he had gone down stairs unlocked my front door and gone and I don't no why, when or where he's gone and he isn't answering his fone and I have textd him loads 2 let him no it me ringing him and he not answering. It's a chance he could be asleep but what do I do now ?

[kaka67]

Did you have sex with him?

It could be a case that he got what he wanted and he's done with you.

Who knows? Why are you so worried anyway?

Maybe he's doing something that doesn't involve you i.e. hanging with mates and doesn't want you annoying him with texts and ringing.

Edit: Sorry should have asked how old you both are?

[redhed35]

Could I ask how long your dating?

His phone may need to be charged,he may have left it somewhere and does not realise your ringing.

BUT, the clincher here is,why are you trying to call him? What's wrong?

When he does look at his phone he's going to see missed calls from you and wonder what the hell is going on!

There's not much else I can offer you in the way of advice until you give a little more information.

I will add,don't be so needy!

[x_josie_cooper_x]

I'm 15 he's 17 and been going out for him 4 abwt 3 weeks and I've had sex with him on more than this accasion and he just went out my house though when I'm asleep and we had an argument last nyt and he couldn't look at me so think he might of cheeated on me on fridaii but we made up and I fell asleep with his arms around me and woke up with him gone ?


3 weeks and no his fone is ringing he just not answering and I've textd him 2 explain why I am ringing him... and I'm ringing him because he was not there when I woke up and I don't no why or where he is