[mintah50]

There this guy I was talking to and it almost a year I known him. We were off and on and now ended up being friends. But there something still there and it bothers me. We text everyday see each other everyday. It like I'm attach to him and we can never be separated all of our friends went back to european and new friends have arrive but it always been me and him that have remained. It kind of like a obsession between both of us. He a very shy person to me most of the time and not to others friends. There will times where I would try to get over him and talk to other guys and any chance he gets, he would ruin it for me by saying something to them for them to not talk to me. He try to rate the guys that I'm talking to. Which really annoys me. Or if I'm talking to another guy in front of his face he would ignore me the whole day and talk to everyone else except for me. Which makes me feel awkward, he will even go to the extent to invited all our friends somewhere and leave me out. There will even be times where I would ignore him and he will call and text me nonstop and get my friends or his friends to reach out to me. I talk to him about it but it like he doesn't want to really listen and when he does these things to me I fall into his traps and we text the next day like it normal. It bothers and hurts me a lot , don't know what to do about this and I really need advice. I'm confused...

[I wish]

He sounds immature.

It doesn't sound like a very pleasant friendship if he continually makes you confused with his jekyll and hyde-life behavior.

I suggest that you find new friends.

[positiveparent]

He sounds like he's also trying to control you in some ways, and that's not a good thing either, Find yourself another friend, he's not really a friend, he possibly has a cruel streak too.

Plus it appears he also wants to be the centre of attention.