[qness1212]

So my girlfriend is 19 and I am 21. She is not on birth control and we just started having sex regularly. Well we had sex the other day and I was doing her pretty hard cause she likes it and later she said she was bleeding. I was told I might have hit her uteris or something that might be why she is bleeding. Or I popped her cherry. Anyway. She said that her boobs were kind of sore and she felt bloaded and that she might be on her period 2 weeks early. Now I have heard that if you have your period that you are not pregnant but it was just worrying me that she might be and I so hope not. I have been pulling out with a condom every time I have came except for twice and both times the condom wasn't broken or anything. So, if she is on her period please tell me that means she is not pregnant. She just told me today that its spotting and its lasted about 3 days. She also said her back and stomach kind of hurts. I honestly don't know how she could be pregnant is she is because I have used a condom every time and pulled out except for twice but the condoms aren't broken cause I checked. Please help Thanks for the help everyone. I really appreciate it.

[mrshodges]

First off she needs to be on birth control. Second when you are rough wit a woman you can cause beeding. The "cherry" Or more proper Hymen usually gets broke in childhood by falling on a nike or such. If the hymen is still intact by the first sexual experience it will break at that time. Considering you have been using condoms I don't think she is pregnant. She might want to go see a doctor for the other things.

[qness1212]

OK she was planning on getting on birth control in about a month and then this happened. I just remember it started a few days ago and we were having sex and she said it hurt some and then it all started the next day

[Eileen G]

Even when used perfectly, condoms are not 100% effective. The short answer is that if you are having sex, it's possible to get pregnant. Were you using spermacide as well as the condoms?

Bleeding directly after sex is likely the result of being rough. While it's one thing to enjoy vigorous sex, blood is generally a sign that you are taking it too far.

What way are your dates? Where was she in her cycle when you had sex, and when did she have the bleeding?

A normal period at the regular time means you are not pregnant, but it is possible to be pregnant and get light spotting.

This early, it's very unlikely that she would be getting back ache or sore breasts or anything like that from a pregnancy.

[mrshodges]

I agree with the above. Get the birth control and be careful with her.

Oh and I seem to be having trouble with typing today. I meant with not wit and bike not nike.

[J_9]

Condoms aren't 100% effective. The only thing that is 100% effective is abstinence.

Could she be pregnant? Yes.