[epark072]

Hello friends, so I finally got over my ex. She's more beautiful now and happy with her life so I happy for her.

And I met this girl we've been friends for about 9 months hanging out, party together, hooked up few times. And last weekend she txted me from no where saying she thinks she loves me. And I made a joke about it by saying you can't love your brother. And again she said she does love me.

I like her and tried to take her out on a date couple times but it always ended up like family time because she always invite her brother who is a good friend of mine or she had plans so just me and her date never happened.

Idk what to do. What she wants. She txted me yesterday and didn't go far but just asking how I'm doing and no text.
I was at her house last night hangin out with her brother and she knew I was there but didn't even come out of her room and say hi. Is she not that into me or she's just shy about her feelings?

[talaniman]

I think that the brother remark that you thought was so cool, backed her off after she told you how she felt. You better clear it up, and at least explain yourself to her.

In person, no text, or phone calls for this.

[I wish]

Tal is right. When saying that you consider yourself her brother, she will think that you rejected her feelings.

If you have feelings for her, then you should clear the air and be honest about your own feelings to her.

[Homegirl 50]

Your joke may have put an ice cube on her feelings. You need to talk to her, clear things up. Get an understanding on what both your feelings are.