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connell · Jul 18, 2010, 10:17 AM

Hi
Ive started seeing a really nice girl, I do love her an she says she loves me, but recently she's started to blank me, I'm not possessive or nothing, I have asked her why she blanks me an she said she doesn't know she's doing it,
The other day she said it was over she loves me but doesn't want me to get hurt what does she mean by that, BTW we did get back together and still together but its like she's pushing me away I know she's got a lot on her mind like social services an that, I just want to know what's going on in her head and hopefully help her because I do love her!
Can anyone help please?? Thanks

martinizing2 · Jul 18, 2010, 10:27 AM

You need to communicate with her. Ask what's on her mind.
Ask her how she feels about the relationship and what , if anything does she expect from it.

Honestly tell her your feelings and how you feel about her.
If you don't understand each other it will cause conflict and confusion.

Do your best to understand her feelings , it is better to know sooner than later that there is no hope.

Homegirl 50 · Jul 18, 2010, 10:43 AM

How long have you two been dating?
The only way you can know for sure is to talk to her and then listen to what she has to say, then respect whatever decision she makes .

Kitkat22 · Jul 18, 2010, 10:51 AM

You need to use regular words in your post. I noticed some are text speak and that isn't allowed.

As for the girlfriend, give her some space.

positiveparent · Jul 18, 2010, 02:48 PM

Need to spread the rep Kit.
I agree with what you have said though its against site rules to post questions in text or chat speak.

OP you need to talk this through and find out from your g/f what's behind this. Then between you deal with it and sort things out.

Teardrop15 · Jul 18, 2010, 03:24 PM

My Advice Is To Talk To Her Face To Facee; Tell Her What You Feel; Tell Her To Look In Your Eyes & Tell You That She Loves You & Wants To Be With You; You Need To Know This Because If She Doesn't Feel This Way Then You Need To Move On Before Someone Gets Hurts Hope My Advice Helped;

carolod2 · Jul 18, 2010, 05:26 PM

Totally agree with teardrop15. Its all well and good to be understanding and give someone space - she may have been hurt before. However you have feelings too and need to know where you stand. Saying you don't realise you're blanking someone doesn't really cut it, we know when we are acting weird in relationships. At the same time, you sound like a very nice person, continue to be understanding but expect respect in turn also

talaniman · Jul 19, 2010, 09:40 AM

She has lousy communications skills, or is unsure how to communicate with you about her issues. For whatever reasons you have to get across your point of being pushed away, or how do you expect this relationship to survive??

Your posts was edited this time, but you can eliminate the lousy spelling, and chat/text on your own, or risk being deleted. That makes it easier to communicate with others.