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Its not something simple enough to say yes or no to. It really depends on the circumstances. If you are old enough and being responsible about your actions so that you aren't causing yourself or others physical or mental harm, then there shouldn't be a problem with having sex. Why do you feel you may be having too much sex? |
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No, tha mental harm is on me haha my girl who loves me doesn't understand that I love sex all tha time with tha one I love and I'm not addicted, if it was with the girl who says she loves me more than anything I don't think it physically harms her it just sucks that she doesn't have a sex drive like me but I really don't want to leave just try make her understand that I'm not trying to be a dog and have sex all da time its human nature and I find it very intimate and a very deep thing but I think she thinks its dirty and bad to do it all tha time and we having a baby and I use condoms so I know all what Im doing because I am pree confident in my size and ability to make love I mean if a guy doesn't give a girl sex tha world sticks up for tha girl and would say give it to her.. I mean I love her a lot and just want to be able to express in deep physical as well emotional, spiritual companionship without feeling like a sick pervert and get rejected all tha time now that hurts especially from tha girl I love and she loves me a lot but just barely any sex...
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Oh you I never ask for sex but it comes to that and that's sad I don't ever make her ask for it and I bet she feels pree flattered.. I never ask for it I make tha moves but then I get rejected and she worries about me leaving here a lot because a lot of g
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My opinion is that you need communication on a deep intimate level. I noticed you said "you think" she feels it is dirty, and you don't want her "to think" you are just a dog... This is where the communication can open up the needed understanding of each others needs, feelings, and desires and will add even more to the relationships bonding process. The more you understand about your partner the easier it becomes to do things that will put you both in the mood. And it will ease the mental anguish of "rejection" knowing your partners reason (at least to some extent) for not wanting sex right at the time you do. Her being pregnant now is a monumental factor. This is a time when you need to be much more concerned about her feelings than yours. She is not going to be the way she is now forever. The changes in hormones and her entire being are going to make her somewhat of an emotional roller coaster. She needs your assurance of love and support and not pressure for more sex. Communicate and be supportive. Show her and tell her how much she means to you and how much you love her. Do this now and it will possibly be a big factor in achieving a much more willing and responsive lady in your future. Relationships require work on the part of both parties, but the payoff of a good one is lifelong and worth all the effort and compromise you may be putting in now. And isn't a long happy life with her your goal? You sound like you really love each other and if you work on honest heartfelt communication your love will stand a much better chance to grow and flourish. I wish you well and happiness in your relationship and with the precious gift of a child. God bless. |
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 Originally Posted by Lyle2hornz49
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You have to realise that women don't have a horny thought every twenty minutes as apparently men do, oh to have so much time on my hands. You need to control your urges, and if your partner isn't in the mood accept this, and let her be, if you make her feel pressured to have sex she will begin to resent this and one day soon you'll be totally sexless. Good luck with your Baby... Oh yes and after its born shell be tired often.. So make friends with your knuckles.! You know it makes sense. |
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