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emmza123 · Jul 4, 2010, 08:33 PM

Well I'm 14 yr old girl. I have boyfriend, and he always makes out with me and whenever we are hooking up teachers always look at us and obviously we stop I try to make out less at school but it just happens.

I'm curious now on what teachers really think of students who hook up all the time do they think we are sluts ? Because a lot of students think of each other as sluts if we hook up at school.

What do you think?

Kitkat22 · Jul 4, 2010, 08:37 PM

First of all you're breaking the No Contact rule if you live in the states. You could be suspended.

I will say as a former substitute teacher.. kids who make out at school especially at your age are not very good role models for younger kids.

Knock it off before you get into real trouble.

Fr_Chuck · Jul 4, 2010, 08:43 PM

Most think you are hormone driven children who don't know better and they are there to be sure to try and make you follow the rules you refuse to

Kitkat22 · Jul 4, 2010, 08:53 PM

Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Most think you are hormone driven children who don't know better and they are there to be sure to try and make you follow the rules you refuse to

Is the same 17 year old boy in your other thread? You told him you didn't want him touching you or so you said. You are going to get in big trouble if the right teacher sees this going on in school.

School is not a place to "make out". You're there to learn. I will tell you what teachers think of behavior like yours.. most think a girl who makes out with a seventeen year old is either to immature to see the dangers or they think you are acting like a little girl trying to grow up to fast.

Stop cheapening yourself!

Alty · Jul 4, 2010, 09:56 PM

Teachers feel the same way all adults feel when they see children growing up to fast. They feel sad that you're not being smart about things, that you're not listening to what they tell you.

If you don't have enough control to stop groping each other in school, then you're headed for a lot of trouble.

Clough · Jul 5, 2010, 01:56 AM

Hi, emmza123!

It doesn't "just happens". You choose to allow it to happen.

If it distracts and/or interferes with your schoolwork during school and/or getting to class on time, then it needs to stop. If I, as a teacher, thought that the behavior was inappropriate for conduct in school during the school day for proper school decorum to continue, then I would put a stop to it. Additionally, if I thought that a student might be being taken advantage of in some way, any way, socially and morally because of their age and/or grade level, then I would be enlisting the aid of parents, other teachers, school counselors and the administration of the school.

Such things/instances are probably addressed in your student handbook, or whatever it might be called. Have you read it, please?

Thanks!

Kitkat22 · Jul 5, 2010, 04:27 AM

It is inappropriate conduct in the schools now. You can be suspended for it.

cdad · Jul 5, 2010, 05:34 AM

Is this something you do in front of your parents too? Im asking because most schools now have video monitoring going on and if you violate those kinds of rules its not going to come down to he said she said because they will already have evidence of it. Also with him being 17 and you 14 he can get arrested for it. Again they will have proof. So if that's what you want. Go for it and watch your world disintigrate. Stop while your ahead and treat school with respect. Its not only teachers that can see what's going on and once you get a rep it will stick with you the entire time and maybe the rest of your life.

Kitkat22 · Jul 5, 2010, 05:56 AM

In one of your threads you wanted to know how to hug a tall boy and if it was all right to press your breast againt him.

In anotherr thread you said you liked a guy not to touch you. Yet in this thread you say you want to know what teachers think of you two making out.

Then in another thread you say you think a teacher has a crush on you because he ask you if you had a boyfriend and you said no.

This teacher has probably seen your actions with this boy and was going to call you on it.

You told your grandpa about the teacher. Did you tell him about the seventeen year old and how you two grope in the hallways?

Don't accuse someone of something so horrible as a teacher having an affair with a student unless you can back it up.

I don't care who said what about this or that happening you better be darn sure you know what your talking about. You need to get your stories straight.

Aurora_Bell · Jul 5, 2010, 09:34 AM

Okay, I am starting to get the picture here. Emmza, you are 14... 14! I know you are interested in boys, and at your age that is healthy, but you know what's not? Making out in school. The adults that are there are there to teach you what it's going to be like in the real world. You need to take your school more seriously. How do you think an employer would feel if they saw you making out with you flavor d'jour in their establishment?

And is this the tall boy or the 17 year old who gropes you in school?

I can't speak for all your teachers, but I can speak on be half of myself as an adult as to what I would think if I saw a 14 year old making out and "hooking up" in the hallways and that is TACKY!

Alty · Jul 5, 2010, 12:56 PM

Think of high school as a job. This is is the first step in being an adult, and how you handle your experience there, can impact your entire life.

You're there to work, just like a job. Would you grope and kiss someone you work with, at work? If so, you plan on being unemployed.

Treat your high school career as just that, a career, not just a place you're forced to go.

By all means have friends, have fun, but while you're in the school, conduct yourself professionally, like you would at a job.

emmza123 · Jul 10, 2010, 08:05 PM

Yes thanks for your help and to everyone who thinks it's the 17 year old its not its his friend his 19. So I took your advice I told him I didn't want to make out at school and we didn't at school. We went further.. . Some place else.

Alty · Jul 10, 2010, 08:49 PM

emmza123 : yes thanks for your help and to everyone who thinks it's the 17 year old its not its his friend his 19. So I took your advice I told him I didn't want to make out at school and we didn't at school. We went further.. . Some place else.

Well aren't you special? They have a name for girls like you.

I won't tell you what it is. I'm sure you'll hear it soon enough if you keep this up.

Aurora_Bell · Jul 10, 2010, 08:52 PM

Wow, you went further some where else. You should be proud of yourself. Even though you weren't smart enough to keep your clothes on, I hope you were smart enough to use protection. And with a 19 year old. Wow.

Kitkat22 · Jul 10, 2010, 08:54 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

Well aren't you special? They have a name for girls like you.

I won't tell you what it is. I'm sure you'll hear it soon enough if you keep this up.

That's really something... now you'll be popular for all the wrong reasons.
I think the expression would be a toy all the boys like.. for a few minutes.

Alty · Jul 10, 2010, 08:56 PM

The sad part is that she's proud of herself. Ya, the boys will all love her, for one night, then she'll be thrown away, like trash. She can't expect better, act like trash, be treated like trash. That's the way it is.

What is it with kids these days?

Aurora_Bell · Jul 10, 2010, 08:58 PM

I don't know, but when I was 14 I was not having sex or making out in hallways. And that wasn't that long ago...

Wow, I sound like an old dude.

Kitkat22 · Jul 10, 2010, 09:00 PM

Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell

I don't know, but when I was 14 I was not having sex or making out in hallways. And that wasn't that long ago...

Wow, I sound like an old dude.

You're not old.. you just have what this girl doesn't... Class:)

Alty · Jul 10, 2010, 09:10 PM

Okay, have to say, I was that girl.

If someone smarter and older than me told me not to do something, it was a guarantee that I would. I'm speaking from experience when I tell this kid to stop it. I know what it's like to be the trash she's making herself become.

I had issues, tons of other crap going on. I believed that I wasn't worth anything, so why no let guys treat me like a slut (will the filter ixnay that?).

It wasn't until I found my husband that I realized I was worth so much more then I let everyone believe. We were 19 when we met. Thank Dog for him.

Another thing I do find amusing. This girl says they make out at school. Well she picked a winner. He's 19 and still in high school? Didn't she also say they're only 2 years apart grade wise, or did I imagine that? Either way, you, hold on to that one, he's a keeper. NOT!

Kitkat22 · Jul 10, 2010, 09:16 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

Okay, have to say, I was that girl.

If someone smarter and older than me told me not to do something, it was a guarantee that I would. I'm speaking from experience when I tell this kid to stop it. I know what it's like to be the trash she's making herself become.

I had issues, tons of other crap going on. I believed that I wasn't worth anything, so why no let guys treat me like a slut (will the filter ixnay that?).

It wasn't until I found my husband that I realized I was worth so much more then I let everyone believe. We were 19 when we met. Thank Dog for him.

Another thing I do find amusing. This girl says they make out at school. Well she picked a winner. He's 19 and still in highschool? Didn't she also say they're only 2 years apart grade wise, or did I imagine that? Either way, ya, hold on to that one, he's a keeper. NOT!

Alty... look what a good person you are and don't say you were trashy.
We've all done things when we were young we wish we hadn't. You didn't go on making them. You are a woman with a big heart and your classy and a lady. So no more putting yourself down. Here's a slap on the wrist for putting yourself down SLAP>>>SLAP She's probably dating a real Einstien... like Gethro Bodine.:D