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    Jul 9, 2010, 04:46 AM
    How to know if your friend secretly loves you
    At one time we couldn't be separated but a few months later the vibe just dissapered we talk but not as much as we used to but whenever I ask her out she texts me and say that she loved it so much and I love you
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    Jul 9, 2010, 05:44 AM

    I am a little confused as what you are talking about at the end of your post. She loved what? So she said she does love you? I guess that answers it all.
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    Jul 9, 2010, 06:56 AM

    Only way to know the truth is to ask her directly.

    If you have feelings for her, then why didn't you let her know?
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    Jul 9, 2010, 07:31 AM

    This what you posted in a thread that was closed due to how old it was:
    fanas
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    I'm friends with this girl at first she was always around me and sometimes visited me at home but I have not made any advances on her.now she goes for 2-3days without calling im afraid that she wantes me to read her mind and ask her out because I know she likes me
    You ask in that post if she wants you to ask her out, but in the question for this thread you talk about having asked her out. So, I am as confused as the two of you seem to be about what is going on.

    To end the confusion, talk to her. Face-to-face, no texts. Decide together what is happening with the relationship. IF you have feelings for her or think you might, be honest. IF you don't have the same feelings for her, then be honest.

    Don't be surprised if she has met someone else and that is the reason she is not contacting you as much or that she has more going on in her life and you are jumping to conclusions because she isn't as available as she was.

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