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talaniman · Jul 7, 2010, 05:17 AM

Then I suggest you listen to the big dogs telling you how we roll, and get with the progam.

positiveparent · Jul 7, 2010, 06:48 AM

Originally Posted by KyleS28

everyone wants to gang up on the popular kid. i role with the big dogs all the time.

You got that right you are a kid and it shows in your immaturity. One day you'll realise its NOT all about you, if you can't be bothered to help yourself then expect to fail.

Also don't fool yourself you're not the popular kid, you're full of yourself and one fine day you'll find you'll get that knocked out of you, remember this when you fall, because you will.

Ive got a 13 year old whose got more common sense than you're showing.

OOOOPPPPS forgot to change my rating on your post it should have been a disagree, not an agree, oh well...

Homegirl 50 · Jul 7, 2010, 06:53 AM

Nobody wants to gang up on you.
You come here with a problem (several of them) you get advice and you don't want to take it. You're "but I, but she" instead of listening.
All of these young women are not the problem, the problem is how you approach every woman you go out with. You want them to be everything you want them to be and when they are not, you put the blame on them.
No woman is going to be everything you want her to be. You need to ask yourself why you expect so much from women and have no such expectations for yourself.
Instead of taking your time to get to know a woman, you've been hoping from one to another and never examining issues with yourself.

ISneezeFunny · Jul 7, 2010, 07:14 AM

I'm 24, and if my girlfriend jumped out of a tree to surprise me, I'd be... happy to see her? I don't know. It's unusual, I know, to be happy to see the woman I'm dating, but hey, that's just me.

ISneezeFunny · Jul 7, 2010, 07:15 AM

Originally Posted by KyleS28

everyone wants to gang up on the popular kid. i role with the big dogs all the time.

... no one gangs up on the popular kid. They usually gang up on the kid who's in high school and picks his nose in public and eats crayons during class.

Kitkat22 · Jul 7, 2010, 12:28 PM

You are about as popular with women as a toothache.

Stop playing games and either tell the truth or find some other place to play around.

positiveparent · Jul 7, 2010, 01:29 PM

Originally Posted by Kitkat22

You are about as popular with women as a toothache.

Stop playing games and either tell the truth or find some other place to play around.

LO I like that hehe.

Kyle you really would be doing yourself a favour if you were to take in some of the advice you've been offered, its all well intentioned and for your own benefit.

KyleS28 · Jul 8, 2010, 09:49 AM

Once again I appreciate the advice I have been given. Some people obviously are single parents who despise men for having high expectations. I don't blame them for disliking me. Its not about finding flaws. I am looking for a women with real depth.

A woman that thinks she's deep because she has a child isn't the same as a woman who is passionate about her humanitarian experiences.

Don't let my perspective bring you down. Keep shopping at walmart and you will meet a guy that will accept you.

Homegirl 50 · Jul 8, 2010, 10:12 AM

Originally Posted by KyleS28

once again i appreciate the advice i have been given. some people obviously are single parents who despise men for having high expectations. i don't blame them for disliking me. its not about finding flaws. i am looking for a women with real depth.

a woman that thinks shes deep because she has a child isnt the same as a woman who is passionate about her humanitarian experiences.

don't let my perspective bring you down. keep shopping at walmart and you will meet a guy that will accept you.

Now that was just childish. To assume the women here giving you advice are single parents who shop at walmart is, I don't know. Maybe you are just striking back.
I am not a single mom. My daughter is an adult and I have no problem with men accepting me and I have high standards. I do realize that people are not perfect and just because a man is different that does not mean something is wrong with him. He is just not the one for me. That is what maturity teaches for you.

How do you know these women you have dated do not have depth? (or the ones giving you advice for that matter) You don't stay with them long enough. The minute one does something you think is different you become critical.
Your biggest problem here is that you are not very serious. You make jokes, you pop up with hypothetical scenarios so no one knows if you are serious or not.
So is this last girl real?
If she is too weird for you, leave her alone.

KyleS28 · Jul 8, 2010, 12:05 PM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Now that was just childish. To assume the women here giving you advice are single parents who shop at walmart is, I don't know. Maybe you are just striking back.
I am not a single mom. My daughter is an adult and I have no problem with men accepting me and I have high standards. I do realize that people are not perfect and just because a man is different that does not mean something is wrong with him. He is just not the one for me. That is what maturity teaches for you.

How do you know these women you have dated do not have depth? (or the ones giving you advice for that matter) You don't stay with them long enough. The minute one does something you think is different you become critical.
Your biggest problem here is that you are not very serious. You make jokes, you pop up with hypothetical scenarios so no one knows if you are serious or not.
So is this last girl real?
If she is too weird for you, leave her alone.

I haven't had a girlfriend since I was in middle school. I just want to make sure I know what to do once I have girlfriends. The girl jumping out of a tree is real but she isn't my girlfriend yet. I want a girlfriend but this one probably isn't the best choice.

Homegirl 50 · Jul 8, 2010, 12:16 PM

Who was the girl you were with last month. You said you had been with her for a while.
You just be yourself, be considerate, don't expect anymore of them than you expect from yourself.
Relax, get to know her.

positiveparent · Jul 8, 2010, 12:19 PM

Im not a single parent and nor do I shop in walmart, I have 3 wonderful sons one of whom is married to a beautiful italian girl, my husband owns his own company, and I know I am very passionate about certain aspects of my life and my role in this world.

Regardless there is nothing wrong with single parents who do shop at walmart, you have no right to judge another whatever they are or wherever they shop.

So Kyle if you say you haven't had a g/f since middle school, then that means you've come to this site asking for advice and created stories of so say g/f`s in order to get advice, not exactly deep or ethical of you to do that.

You won't get the advice you want if you haven't experienced the stories you've told us.

Here's a little bit of advice for you,

Always but always be honest, above and beyond anything else, being honest you need no memory being honest will pass the test of time, being honest you dont need to look over your shoulder, being honest will take you far in life and brings its own rewards, its also the best policy, people respect honesty, even when it hurts.

When you're not honest you're insulting another persons intelligence and showing yourself as being of an inferior intellect.

positiveparent · Jul 8, 2010, 01:26 PM

Originally Posted by KyleS28

once again i appreciate the advice i have been given. some people obviously are single parents who despise men for having high expectations. i dont blame them for disliking me. its not about finding flaws. i am looking for a women with real depth.

a woman that thinks shes deep because she has a child isnt the same as a woman who is passionate about her humanitarian experiences.

dont let my perspective bring you down. keep shopping at walmart and you will meet a guy that will accept you.

Well until you learn to be honest and how to accept people for what they are then you are going to find yourself on the outside looking in for a few more years.
You show no real character or any quality traits you come here tell us a pack of lies try to insult the advisors, and think your something special, boy have you got a lot to learn, if you were my son Id put you over my knee and tan your hide till you couldn't sit down. Then again if you were my son you'd already be well mannered and polite so it wouldn't be necessary.

Grow up Kyle.

Homegirl 50 · Jul 8, 2010, 01:31 PM

I'm beginning to wonder how old he is.

positiveparent · Jul 8, 2010, 01:48 PM

Sorry homegirl have to spread the rep again!!

I agree with you I too wonder how old he is I would think roughly mid teens, he's not in my opinion anywhere near a mature adult...

Ive a 13 year old son who is more mature and has more common sense and integrity.

Kitkat22 · Jul 8, 2010, 02:02 PM

Originally Posted by positiveparent

Sorry homegirl have to spread the rep again!!!!

I agree with you I too wonder how old he is I would think roughly mid teens, hes not in my opinion anywhere near a mature adult...

Ive a 13 year old son who is more mature and has more common sense and integrity.

I'm beginning to wonder if he's an earthling!

talaniman · Jul 8, 2010, 02:06 PM

Do we really need the insults and personal attacks. Having differing opinions is one thing. To personalize things is another.

That usually means it has gone beyond constructive, or instructive, and needs to be closed. So without further ado..!