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    Jun 29, 2010, 05:48 PM
    he texted me whilst on a break
    Ok so I've been with my boyfriend a year. We're on a break as things are real bad between us. I found out that he had invited some random girl over to his house. He says she's just a friend and that I'd got the wrong idea. Basically I went mad as we had discussed ground rules about the relationship and this was one of them. He text me tonight after no contact for a couple of days saying that he doesn't want me to think bad of him and that he wouldn't hurt me on purpose. The problem he says is that I don't trust him and that a relationship is built on trust. And that he doesn't want to waste my time or his. He also said he would speak to me after. Well I did trust him up until I discovered that he was planning on inviting this girl over to his house. If the shoe had been on the other foot and it had been me doing this he wouldn't stand for it one bit. I haven't replied to this text as it seems he's taking no responsibility. I haven't done anything wrong


    I just don't see the point in him texting me at all. What is he trying to get across? And is he trying to passing the buck?
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    Jun 30, 2010, 07:01 PM

    How can he take responsibility if you refuse to talk to him??
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    Jul 1, 2010, 08:15 PM
    Leave him alone.
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    Jul 1, 2010, 10:52 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    Leave him alone.
    Why?
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    Jul 2, 2010, 09:26 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Clough View Post
    Why?
    Why? Because this woman has trust issues and isn't prepared for a relationship. Why be with someone if you can't trust them? He doesn't need the stress.. neither does she.
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