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    Jun 30, 2010, 11:29 PM
    She's angry.
    My best friend, A always tease me. Some of them did hurt me. I did not say anything cause she IS my best friend. So I just accept whatever she teased. But then today, I accidentally said something that hurts her and now she's angry at me. HOW?
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    Jun 30, 2010, 11:47 PM

    You're more forgiving of her teasing then she is.

    She spoke up, you don't. That's the difference.

    You can't expect her to know that she hurts you if you don't tell her. So next time, stick up for yourself, let her know that you don't like being teased.

    As for her being angry. If you did something to justify her anger, apologize. You can't use her past behavior against her, because she wasn't aware of how you felt about it.
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    Jul 1, 2010, 12:00 AM
    Text some nice message to her.. saying 'you looks more pretty when u curses me. Searching more & more ways to hurt you, so that I can see the pretty innocent face again and again.'
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    Jul 1, 2010, 12:03 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by ps_123 View Post
    Text some nice message to her..saying 'you looks more pretty when u curses me. Searching more & more ways to hurt you, so that I can see the pretty innocent face again and again.'
    Are you trying to be funny?

    This isn't very helpful advice. The OP is obviously young and looking for sound advice, opinions, not your anger and hurt.
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    Jul 1, 2010, 12:45 AM
    I don't mean to show anger and hurt.She seems to be a girl who can easily get hurt and can easily be impressed.So I just suggested a way to impress her.

    Why to allow little disputes ruin a good friendship?

    Kindly ignore,if my suggestion does not seems to be good.
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    Jul 1, 2010, 04:36 AM

    I think Alty is right, speak up when her comments hurt. How else will she know when she crosses the lines of teasing, and being hurtful?
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    Jul 1, 2010, 04:55 AM

    Best friends should be able to talk openly and honestly about how they feel.

    You shouldn't allow her to hurt your feelings... you need to stand up for yourself and tell her how you feel.
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